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Recollections of Jharna Ghosh including her first Darshan of The Mother, her life in the Ashram spanning 50 years & more, her interaction with sadhaks & more..

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Jharna Ghosh

Recollections of Jharna Ghosh including her first Darshan of The Mother, her life in the Ashram spanning 50 years & more, her interaction with sadhaks & more..

Recollections
English

Five decades and more

 

It is said that time is like a flow of water, that which has passed by doesn’t return. But in a man’s life the years, months, days, hours, now and then leave a stamp which remains with him even after decades.

It is more than five decades that as a girl entering her teens, I came to the Ashram in the early fifties.

From then on time has gone by and event after event have left some interesting memory, ever lasting memory.

So one day I felt like going deep down in me and see what I still remember.


Arrival in Pondicherry and my first Darshan of The Mother

 

1953, on 19 February in the evening, with one of my father’s cousins, I arrived in Pondicherry. That was the period when there were no bus service between Pondy and Madras; Pondy being a French territory. The only route available was the railroad.

A place called Kandamangalam was the International Boundary between the two territories and thus there was a custom office there. The train from Egmore station would arrive at Kandamangalam where all the passengers destined for Pondy had to get down and allowed to be body searched. In the main custom office there was a small room full of goods where the passengers were led to be body searched man by man and woman by woman.

Surendra, who was a friend of my uncle Suren Datta was given the charge to represent the Asrham for all the custom formalities. He was also in charge of the dairy where the local milkman came twice a day to milk their cows. A few Ashramites would be present when milking was done. It was then weighed and then sent to Dining Room. (There was another dairy just by the side, it was looked after by Jalad-da and there the cows were Ashram property). Surendra-da or Kaku as I called him, being a friend of my uncle, was also in charge of going to different local offices to pay taxes for electricity, water, houses etc.

I may mention here that the Ashramite in general were not encouraged to have any social inter action with the local people. As a matter of fact there were three Sadhaks who dealt with the outside world be it local or some where out of station.

The one being (Surendra-da) Kaku who was given this work but also after Pondicherry became an Indian Territory he was to see that all goods coming by train or bus were brought and sent to their respective departments for which the consignment arrived. Even for personal railway parcels one had to take his help as they were not allowed to involve themselves with anything other than the work given to him/her by the Mother. The second being Kameshwarji who looked after anything regarding the police department. He would also visit the banks daily to deposit or draw money as he was asked.

Then there was Tulsibhai who had the permission to go out of station any where in India for Ashram work.

There were lots of restrictions, like not to eat outside cooked food, washing vegetable & fruits with potassium parmaganet if bought at the market, ladies to go to market only in Sari or Salwar Kameez etc. etc.

Then there were only two trains from Pondy to Kandamangalam; one in the morning and one in the late afternoon.

Now, Surendra-da who had to leave Pondy by the morning train had to take his meals along with him. In that period the Sadhakas hardly had any cooking arrangements at home. If any they could just may make a cup of tea in their rooms. A few, very few were allowed to cook and that too I believe if there were children at home or needed something other than the D.R. preparation.

So Kaku was supplied with an Ikmic cooker. I don’t know whether this contraption is still found in some household, just a brief description may give some idea to the new generation.

It is a tiffin carrier encased in a metal body. At the bottom there used to be a tray like bowl in which one had to put coal or charcoal and above in the carrier with 3/4 bowls measured rice, dal, water and ingredients. Put fire on the charcoal/ coal and let it take its course. The amount of coal or charcoal regulated the fire. Kaku used this till Pondy was a part of Indian Territory. For me who had come across only of wood burning oven, spirit stove, this particular cooker certainly was a novelty.

On 19th February early morning we arrived at Madras central station. From there how we reached Egmore I don’t remember. But after reaching the station a middle aged man informed that the next train was only in the afternoon; so we had no other option but spend the whole day at the station. And the day passed for me gazing at the people around us, not so much for their dress or stature as much for their language. We were but dumb witnesses to all that passed around us. Uncle with whom I travelled was for a short time in the army so he could speak some sort of Hindi. His English was zero, except a few words and that too pronounced in Bengali intonation. The middle aged gentleman was there with us and tried to help us with our meals. He bought some idlies in the morning and in the afternoon two packets of rice mixed with sambar.

When the train arrived he showed us the compartment and in return as far as I remember uncle gave him a rupple or so. By evening we reached Kandamangalam. A tall and robust gentleman entered the compartment, walked directly towards us and asked my name. Beside him was another gentleman whom I recognised not very assuredly as my uncle Suren Dutta (I was meeting him nearly after a decade). We took the train for Pondy and reached the French territory at about 8.30PM.

In the fifties there were no rickshaws as we see them today. They were pulled by men; we can still find them in some localities in Kolkata. On the way I was shown the Ashram building. Next day being a Sunday, was the day for blessings. In the fifties the Mother used to come down to the Meditation Hall and give blessings three days a week: Sunday, Tuesday and Friday. I believe even before that she used to come for blessing everyday.

Before coming down to the Meditation Hall she came for Balcony Darshan, the northern balcony on the first floor. Balcony Darshan was daily whereas I mentioned there were only three days a week of Blessings. She would come to Balcony any time between 9 am and 11 am. But on blessing days she would try to come by 9 or 9.30 am.

Balcony Darshan at that particular hour and also Her coming down to Blessings came to an end when in mid-fifties She was indisposed; thus an old routine of the Ashram came to an end. From then on the Balcony Darshan shifted to early morning between 6 - 6.30 am. This continued till she stopped coming down to the first floor. After that we saw The Mother on four Darshan days on the eastern balcony of the second floor and if she permitted then on our birthdays; we would go to the second floor in Her room or in The Music room and received Her Blessings.

As I have mentioned about he Balcony Darshan, it may interest some to know a few interesting points. If one was observant then in a few days time one saw a distinct pattern of The Ashramites coming, going and taking there place in the gathering.

In earlier days by nine in the morning one could see Thakuma (Charu Dutta’s wife), Puti-di or Pratibha Devi, a relative of C. R. Das and his nieces (Sahana-di and her sisters), Charubala-di - sister of freedom fighter Suryasen of Chittagang, Mridu-di who used to cook for Sri Aurobindo, taking their respective places on the footpath in front of Mridu-di’s house. Around them there would be Priti-di, Minoo-di; Amita-di, Arati-di, Lilouben, Pushpaben, Chitra-di and others. One could say every one had his/her fixed place to stand and wait for the Mother. And I believe by this the Mother was also aware of the Ashramites present for Balcony Darshan. For if She found someone absent (in earlier days) She would ask Amrita-da or Nolini-da to find out whether the individual was unwell. This reminds me of an incident I heard from one of the old Sadhaks.

This particular individual was still visiting the Ashram as a visitor and in those days whoever even visited the Ashram tried to learn a few French sentences or words thinking that if the Mother said something in front of them, they may be able to understand a little of what She spoke. So often they would catch hold of Benjamin an old and ancient Sadhak and try to learn smattering of French sentences or words. This particular gentleman did the same and instead of going to the Balcony Darshan he had gone to Benjamin to learn French and became late. The Mother must have marked his absence so when Amrita-da and Nolini-da went to the Mother for their daily work, She asked Amrita-da to find out why so and so’s brother was absent for Balcony Darshan.

After the work when Amrita-da came down he asked one of helpers to go and ask the individual to come and meet him. This visitor has been praying to the Mother to accept him in the Ashram but the Mother always assured him that she would call him at an appropriate time. She did exactly that, when She needed his service. So at Amrita-da’s summon he rushed to the Ashram thinking that may hap the Mother has decided to make him an Ashramite, only to be charged by Amrita-da, “Why were you absent for Balcony Darshan ?”

“How do you know that I wasn’t present?”

“I didn’t”, replied Amrita-da, “The Mother told us so.”

“But I thought the Mother didn’t know me” was the lame excuse.

“Just remember this”, Amrita-da in his mild way admonished, “She knows each one of us, never make this mistake.”

Going back to Balcony Darshan most of the Ashramites would gather on the road below the balcony. In the early fifties one of Sri Aurobindo’s nieces lived for a period in the Ashram. She used to stand on the footpath by the side of the small door of the staircase going up to the first floor. The Mother would come out and step directly to the eastern side of the balcony, look down on this lady and give a board smile. Then Her look would move from near to far; after taking note of those present she stepped to the northern side and in a long sweeping look as if she gathered everyone in Her fold concentrated for a few minutes or so. Then She stepped back and the gathering dispersed.

My first Darshan of the Mother wasn’t at the balcony but at the time of Blessings. I still remember 20th Feb.1953, a Sunday. And it being a Sunday those who worked in different departments were free. So two of my aunt’s friends came too, I believe out of curiosity, to see what type of material I was made of. They sort of decided what frock I was to wear, how I should comb my hair before going to the Mother and after being ready; with my uncle I went along with them to The Ashram. We entered the Ashram premises and what struck us was flowers, flowers, flowers every where. It was a fairy land of colours and fragrance.

We were shown the Samadhi and after offering our pranam we stood on a queue to go to the Mother.

On the turning corner to the Meditation Hall, the circle in which there now is a bush of “Joy of faithfulness,” there was an adult pine tree and under it stood an imposing figure of a middle aged man with a big Vermilion tika on the forehead. He was simply dressed in a dhoti and chadar, who very much resembled a priest of a temple, particularly that of a “devi” temple. Step by step we advanced towards the Meditation Hall and from a point one could see, the Mother seated and three or four people around Her.

Expression on Her face varied according to the individual in front of Her. But most of the time it was smile of great beauty.

We approached Her, She gave us each a white flower with very long petal and we moved out of the Meditation Hall. We didn’t have the time to see anything around, as She was the centre of gravity, the focal point. One didn’t have the eyes for anything else.


The Hut under the silk cotton tree

 

The silk cotton tree is a very special landmark of Pondicherry town. Though the house in which was this giant tree belonged to a local gentleman, yet it was rented to the Ashram. The house was called “Chettiar House”. Chettiar might have been the name of the proprietor.

When this particular property was in the hands of the Ashram, it had three buildings. On the eastern side there was a long building with a narrow verandah in front: it had five or six rooms and were occupied by some Sadhaks. Then there was an annex to the eastern building; two Parsi sisters lived in that and lastly on the south there was the main building used as the tailoring department of Albert-da.

There was a long courtyard running from south to north and at the north most side was is this giant silk cotton tree. And this courtyard was under Nirmal-da’s care.

Nirmal-da, was one of the gardeners of the Ashram like Parichand-da, Jotin-da, Jiban-da, Atal-da (Maret Garden).

Nirmal-da loved dearly the children and particularly the boys. He had a very soft corner for the boys of green group. He had built a hut under the silk cotton tree, probably to store his gardening tools. But it so happened that some young boys fell in love with that hut and wanted it as their nook of special retreat. Nirmal-da willingly handed it over to them.

The green group boys who are now of grand parent’s age began to feel very special. They would just get into the hut and sit inside whenever they had some free moments.

In the fifties there wasn’t a lot of money around and neither were there any individual or family connected with the Ashram and yet lived a private life. For young Ashramites there were no night out or such amusement but only one picnic after the 2nd December programme. So whenever the youngsters wanted a little diversion they would bring slices of Ashram bread, butter (which was distributed every Sunday and that too quite generously) and some bananas and have a picnic in that hut.

These green group boys had a brilliant idea and that was to grow vegetables for The Mother. They approached Nirmal-da with their proposal, naturally Nirmal-da was extremely happy to help and be their guide. He supplied them with seeds of radish and ladies finger, asparagus and some other vegetables. He chalked out a small plot for each one of them.

The work began in earnest. The young boys learnt to till the ground, remove pebbles and stones, add manure, smooth the surface, make the bed and sow the seed.

Sowing over, one has to wait for the germination. For the enthusiasts it was a test of patience. Whenever there was a short break in school one or the other would rush to Chettiar House to find out if there was any further development.

One morning, before the school began there was great excitement among the young gardeners. In whisper the news spread among them that a layer of green is visible on the surface. At 9.30 break most of the members of green group rushed to Chettiar House to witness the miracle. As days passed, the plants grew, the leaves sprouted, then one of the boys discovered that there was also bud like growth on the ladies finger plant. The radishes were naturally underground thus it was not possible to examine their growth.

Meanwhile Nirmal-da informed them that the Vegetables have to be tender for the Mother’s kitchen. When he realised that it only made him visit those plots a few times a day at the insistence of the young gardeners, he assured them that he would let them know of the correct harvesting time.

At last the eventful day arrived and Nirmal-da gave the green signal. The first lot of vegetable were the radishes. They were uprooted and with Nirmal-da’s help washed and dried with great care and love.

It must have been Nirmal-da who found a brass plate to carry the produce to the Mother. The boys washed and polished the plate till it shone like one of gold.

The radishes were arranged in that plate and were covered with a beautiful crocheted cover.

It was the period when the Mother came thrice a week to give blessing in the morning. She used to sit where there is Her enlarged seated photo at present in the Meditation Hall.

The boys in a group stood in front of Her and offered Her their labour of love. She took the plate, removed the cover, saw those tiny radishes so beautifully arranged and then looked at the boys and gave a smile. The smile She bestowed upon them was a gift for one’s whole life time.

Mother blessed the boys, gave each an extra flower (a rose) in addition to the regular one that she distributed in general. The young gardeners’ joy knew no bound.

The girls of the same group too began to grow vegetables for the Mother but they were unable to continue. As to the vegetable cultivation by the boys continued for a period and then it stopped. But the hut remained in their possession. The ownership was handed down from generation to generation of green group boys till the house was sold off to someone.

 


My Introduction to the Cultural Programmes of the Ashram

 

First December 1953

 

It was in 1953 that I went to the stage to perform for 1st December Programme. In that epoch the vacations were meant for the preparation for 1st and 2nd December celebration.

The academic year ended by the 31st  October, and the rehearsal for both the dates would begin in full swing. It is, I feel necessary to mention that many an item used to get prepared for the 2nd December by 18 October. It is Pranab-da’s birthday and members of green and red group would compose quite a few items to demonstrate on this particular occasion i.e. Pranab-da’s birthday.

The members of these two groups would compose and practice the items when Pranab-da would likely be absent at the Play Ground or Tennis ground.

I am reminded of a very amusing incident that occurred one year. A teenage boy joined the Ashram and as he was of Red group age, he became one of the members (At present he is a guru some where in the west). This young member had learnt some drills from the West Bengal Police Force. When the preparations for 18 October began he proposed to teach us a rifle drill. As it was something new everyone became very enthusiastic and it was decided that if successful it will be performed also on 2nd December.

As mentioned it was a rifle drill, but from where will we get the rifles at least some thirty or so of them? Then there was a talk that Udar-da who was in charge of Harpagon would make some wooden replicas and those will be used for the drill.

Some how the local police came to know about this particular item and they objected to our learning or presenting it. They were upset imagining that Ashram was giving training to young boys and girls how to handle fire arms.

I believe The Mother was informed about the displeasure of the Pondicherry govt. and so She didn’t approve even of wooden replicas. Ultimately we performed the drill with long wooden sticks. And as far as I remember the local police objected even to that.

It was but one amusing incident out of many that we witnessed when young.

So as I stated the vacations were meant to prepare for the two celebrations. First December: the anniversary of the school, Second December: the anniversary of the physical education.

For 1st December Anuben, Normam-da, Amita-di, Shobha-di would put up their ideas and suggestions in front of the Mother for Her approval.

In1953 among other items there was a dance drama based on Sri Aurobindo’s poem “Love and Death”.

The story being of Ruru and Priyumvada, a young couple deep in love lived an enchanted life in Nature till one morning Priyumvada is bitten by a snake and she dies in Ruru’s arms.

The separation was most painful for the loving bereaved husband and he decides to go to the abode of Yama in search of his beloved wife. In his journey to the other world he passes through different planes and finally reaches his destination. He brings back his wife only in exchange to half of his life span.

There were many scenes in the dance drama depicting Nature and other worlds. The cast had to be big.  So one evening Amita-di just asked me to follow her while marching was going on and we were waiting for concentration and distribution. We went to her house which is at the opposite corner of the same street, there on the Verandah she showed some steps which were ballet steps and asked me to reproduce them. I was terribly clumsy and failed miserably. They needed very many people to depict so many characters. So I was not rejected out right. They found out a very very small part for me.

I was to be a bird flying through when Ruru passed. Even that was foreign to me as my knowledge of dance was limited to moving hands and legs in graceful ways and that too with songs.

I believe my uncle and aunt sat with great expectations on the day of the Programme, as they had seen me rushing out of the house anytime of the day for rehearsal.

When my turn came I entered the stage from one wing making flying movement and exited from the opposite one.

Can one imagine the disillusion state of my poor aunt and uncle regarding my ability to dance?

 


Periple D'or

 

In the fifties the Programme for first December consisted of various items. There were western vocal music; if Monique was visiting then there would a ballet dance; a dance drama choreographed by Anuben with the help of other dancers, a play written by the Mother and lastly some passage from Savitri. Amita-di always played the role of Savitri.  One year the programme began at 6 pm and ended at one in the morning. Then there came a period when it was decided that on the first December only Sri Aurobindo’s work will be presented. But then once in a while the Mother made an exception, one such year was 1961.

A French inmate of the Ashram had written a symbolic play and wished to present it on the 1st of December.

Mother approved of the idea and rehearsal began in earnest.

The author of the play wished to choreograph and direct it and that too was granted by the Mother, but I believe Anuben was asked to help in the work. The author had her own ideas about the cast and the first priority was the height of the participants. She wanted everyone of the cast to have at least 160cm in height. Naturally the hunt began. We were still students and at that age anything can become an occasion to make fun. We would ask each other, “160?” and then either laugh or say something quite derogatory. But for Anuben who was asked by the Mother to help was no joke. She had to find that many individuals of that height for the play.

One bright day it was announced that the young ladies who had a height of 160cm or above should meet Anuben in the Dancing Hall.

The students who dance would participate was taken for granted provided they were tall enough.

As I said in the beginning the play was symbolic; it was the golden journey of the male & female elements of the ultimate truth. These two characters’ journey through different stages and levels of consciousness.

First, the most important characters were chosen and the list was sent to the Mother for Her approval; secondary characters were also chosen and then came our turn. We were the minnows for any cultural Programme.  But as I was just 160cm in height I was chosen to be a part of a tableau of a group of six. This tableau was to represent the evolution of nature and I was to represent trees, plants and flowers. I still remember how one afternoon I was called to meet the director. I went to the Dance Hall as instructed and there were the director, her mother (an old lady) and Anuben. They were all three there to give me an idea as to what would be my role. The director very seriously explained the role and commented that it was a great privilege given to me, to be able to be a part of the play. The old lady after all these talks played a few notes on a harmonium and I was told that, that was to be my music.

Actually, those notes were taken from a composition of The Mother; but I could not understand how three or four notes could be enough for a complete dance. (Later I realized that there was no dance to be danced but walk slowly to the centre of the stage, make a few gestures with hand and arms and then retreat to a corner to stand immobile for an hour or so).

While we were walking back to the Ashram I asked Anuben, "How could these few notes represent a music and that too for a dance?”. She was, like the director, serious about the matter and answered, “It is a symbolic play, everything from dress to music have to be unique.”

The notes were taken from the Mother’s organ music, who dares to question?

Millie-di who was in charge of greenroom, costume and make up, generally tried to make use of all that was in her store and then only she made new if it was absolutely necessary.

But in the year 1961 as the play was symbolic the costumes also tended to be very different.

The Mother might have been informed about the costumes and she began to send pieces of material from her own personal stock velvet, taffeta, crepe, silk etc. Tailor Govind was entrusted with making all the costumes as he had his training in a foreign country, it was deemed that he could execute it the best.

The director and her mother would make some sketches and studying those poor Govind had to stitch the dress. Most of the sketches were so impractical looking that Govind had to run time and again either to Millie-di or to the director to find out what was expected of him. He wouldn’t touch a piece of cloth and spoil it as they were mostly from the Mother’s personal stock. I must say our director had imagination! There were so many varieties of dresses; long, short, full sleeves, sleeve-less, some like huge lamp shades!

For our tableau the tree and the snake were to have full length dress but the other four: from short to very short ones. Those who were to wear very short dress were promised that tights from France were coming and they will be supplied with Purnaprema or Purna, as she was known to us all, the Mother’s grand daughter, had still not settled in the Ashram. She used to visit regularly so the Mother sent her a word to come that year before 1st December so that she could bring from France whatever was necessary for the play. Apart from the tights she was also asked to bring makeup of different color and hue.

The Mother had stopped going to the Play Ground after 1958. Till that year She participated physically in many of the rehearsals and gave suggestions. She would even change a whole scene if She thought it not to be appropriate. After 1958 she would meet the artists on the first floor of the Ashram from where now the message for the Darshan is distributed and give Her opinion or suggestions.

In 1961 however She decided to go to the theatre to grace a rehearsal. Did She wish it Herself or was requested we would never know. The fact that She wished to come to the theatre was good enough to be happy. For to perform in front of Her was everyone’s dream. We speculated about the time of Her visit. Would it be early evening or late afternoon? She sent a word saying that She would come at 2pm in the afternoon.

On the appointed day we had a very early lunch and by noon we were all bundled in the vegetable van. (That was an old van used for collecting vegetables and fruits from gardens of the Ashram). Most of the day this particular vehicle would stink of rotten vegetable or of cow dung.

Our scene was at the very end of the play. So the moment we reached the theatre Milli-di ordered us to go and take some rest so that in front of The Mother we did not look tired. Chandrakant-bhai, who was and still is one of the most important hands in the theatre, had a go down. He herded us all in that hot stuffy room, spread a piece of tarpaulin and asked us to lie down on it.

An hour or so passed, then we were called for make up.  I, being a tree was made up with the green colour; that is lips, eyes and eye brows were all painted green. The moment I looked into the mirror after the make up I knew what I looked like.

Many an Ashramites began to trickle in, for they wanted to see the play along with the Mother. Of these a few even ventured into the green room. One lady saw my face and exclaimed, “God! What a monster!” Then she might have realized that it was a wrong thing to say, so approached me and nearly took me in her arms with consoling words, “Sorry child, it is really not that bad”.

It seems those who had come on that day to see the rehearsal with the Mother, found the piece highly innovative and some even it seems have had some inner experience. “Périple d’or” for us was a terrible D’or. But then time flows and it is now more than forty years that I stood on the stage in a green dress and green make up for some one to exclaim “what a monster!”

 


News reading at the playground

 

At present nearly every Ashramite has a TV set. But in the early fifties very few possessed even a radio set. There were a few gramophones, which are lost or once in a while which are seem in an advertisement, were the only means to enjoy songs by Rafi, Lata or Talat Mahmud. It was the habit of the young boys and girls to visit those friends who possessed a gramophone and sit around it listening to the hit song provided there were any in the collection.

We are told that in the Ashram there was only one radio set in Pavitra-da’s room. His duty was to listen to the news and when he went to meet The Mother, he would let Her know all that was important and relevant.

As the Mother’s permission was necessary for having a cycle or a radio set, she would decide whether to permit or not. Mahalaya is an important occasion for the Bengalis as it is the beginning of Devi Paksha: thus Durga Puja. So the Bengali Ashramites especially the ladies would go in big groups to those who had a radio set to listen to “Devi Mahatya”. And the broadcast begins at 4 or 4.30 in the morning. The Mother even once, it seems said to some one who wanted to buy a set for his daughter, “Radio? Why? There is no war!”

But by and by She began to permit the Ashramites to have radio sets and Dhruvajyoti-da was one of the first to buy a set. His daughter was in our group; so now and then we would go to their place to hear Hindi or Bengali songs, provided it was not the hour to broad cast news.

I said there were very few sets, but there were quite a few individuals who were interested in what was happening in the outside world, may it be political, scientific or social. Inside the Ashram building there was a news paper reading room. At present it is used for fruit distribution.

There would be news papers of different vernacular languages along with two or three English papers. The vernacular papers were always old by a few days or may be a week and those who hadn’t good knowledge of English were handicapped.

 One evening we found a group of elderly Ashramites near the small tiffin room. Everyone was listening to some one very attentively. Out of curiosity some of us went near to find Dhruvajyoti-da in the centre of the group. He was reading something from bits of paper. Asking his daughter we came to know that he noted down all that is broadcasted at news time and till then was sharing only with his friends. It must have been someone’s suggestion that if he read the news in the Play Ground, a lot more would be able to hear what was happening. Thus news reading became a regular feature in the Play Ground.

It must not be out of place if I say something about the Play Ground at that hour or hours before the March Past.

The Play Ground activities began at 4.30pm.

The children of green group, the younger ones would have their activities in the Play Ground from 4.30 to 5.15-5.30pm.then there would be Gymnastics of different groups. Twice Green group, twice Red and twice White and Grey groups. In those days the groupings were a little different. So by the time the Mother came to the Play Ground, after playing Tennis, around 5.30-6pm there would already be a group doing gymnastics or exercises.

Between 6.30 and 7 pm most of the other groups would return from Tennis, Volley ball or Sports Ground. And by 7 pm the Play Ground which had a deserted look all through the day would team with people. For not only the group members but also most of the Ashramites and visitors would be present for the March Past.

The schedule time for March Past generally was between 7.15-7.30pm. But if the Mother consented to give an interview to someone (it could be any one, some one visiting or an inmate) then March Past would be only when the Mother was ready for it.

So, often there was ample time in our hand. In the Mother’s class room many would sit and study; some completing a home work for the next day, other getting some explanation from a teacher. Then there were different groups all gathered around the Play Ground.

Apart from the group listening to News from Dhruvajyoti-da, there would often be a group around Kabi Nishikanto listening to his incredible ghost stories, his contact with Rabindranath, pranks at Shantiniketan, his painting session in and around Pondicherry. But once in a while he would select a word in a vernacular language and ask those around to translate it in another which when translated could mean something not so refined or hilarious. Regarding the group around Dhrubajyoti-da, it was something very unique. Because in this group, there were Sisir-da, Nalini Sarkar-da, Tinkori-da, Amal-da and quite a few others. These elderly gentlemen would wait impatiently for the arrival of Dhruvajyoti-da. If he was late he would nearly roll into the ground for he had a rolly polly figure. When Dhrubajyoti-da began reading news from his bits of paper and if any of us made a loud noise nearby or spoke loudly, then we were sure to see some frowns and irritations on some faces. Broadcast over Sisir-da, Nalini-Sarkar da would go to sit discussing the issues. But the moment the Mother stepped out of Her room every activity would cease and one got ready to participate in the March Part actively or otherwise.

In course of time the Ashram News Paper reading room was changed into fruit distribution room. Once while having some light talks with Rabindraji I had asked why the Reading room was taken up for fruit distribution. He laughed his characteristic laughter and answered, “Because both are nourishment”.

 


A Sunday morning

 

For us, the school children, every day was a day of happening, of celebration if 1 may say so. But Sunday was something very special. It was a day when we were free to spend as we liked till 5pm when the group activities began. There was naturally music class with Sahana-di which she used to hold in the Play Ground old gymnastic hall.

Just a small sketch of the day may give an idea how some of the children spent the Sunday. There were naturally cricket tournaments in the winter but other than that we were free all through the year.

A few of us who arrived in the Ashram in a period of five or six months time bonded into a group and that too a mixture of boy and girls nearly of same age. All of us just entered our adolescence, thus bundles of energy. We actually didn’t know how to spend it as the Mother being the generator replenished us every moment of the day through Her presence.

Even now I find that if there is no school then the children feel lost. We were in the same situation, “How do we spend the morning on a Sunday?”

We would certainly devise something or the other which was permitted. Going out as the children do now was a definite “no” without the Mother’s permission. And even it was arranged it had to be under some elders like Biren-da who had to approach the Mother for Her consent. But that would be a rare occasion. Thus Sunday mornings were spent playing at the Play or Tennis ground or swimming in the sea.

I don’t know when they open the Play Ground gate these days, but then it was kept open from early hours and we would go there to play Gadi for a period and then go to Tennis ground for Sea Swimming.

Yogananda-da (Parul-di’s uncle), Arun-da and Sudhi-da were life guards. It was only in their presence we were allowed to enter into the Sea. One of them (generally Yogananda-da stood on the shore ready for any emergency, Arun-da would get into the water; so would Sudhi-da. Sudhi-da short and stout; he could swim for hours. Whenever we girls went swimming he would be with us with an inflated tyre and pull us far into the sea.  Once it so happened we went over a fisherman’s net, Sudhi-da realised it only after we were a few meters inside. With difficulty he had to steer us clear of it. Generally after having reached a certain distance. We just floated holding onto the tyre for quite sometime and then return. Coming back to the shore is far easier as you move along with the waves.

One day we were quite a distance from the shore and suddenly the tyre was snatched away from our hand by someone. Soon we were surrounded by half a dozen swimmers and in an eye blink we got back our tyre.

This was Biren-da’s group teaching someone how to swim. It was an interesting method though a little unconventional. Now there were two Biren-das: one was called press Biren-da or Biren-da with long hair. He had long hair up to his waist and worked at the Press. A slim figure, always in dhoti and chadar; in hand either a book or a news paper, reading even while walking on the road.

Then there was Pehlwan Biren-da who used to teach body building and also boxing. This Biren-da had a unique way of teaching swimming. If it were an adolescent or a young man who wished to learn to swim with him, he agreed. On a Sunday morning he would ask a few young men who were in his body building group and at the same time quite proficient in swimming to go for sea swimming. They always knew where they were to start, that is the old pier. (It was a little longer in those days)

When everyone present some would jump into the water and start swimming, other after getting into water wait for Biren-da to get in. The learner was then asked to jump and catch the inflated tyre that was already floating on the Waves. With all faith in Biren-da the beginner would jump only to find the tyre a little farther from his reach. Naturally in order not to drawn the poor fellow would try stroke after stroke and though it would be a test of stamina and endurance those who continued, learnt to swim in one or two sessions. For the distance was at least more than 500mts but whenever the swimmer was tired there would be the tyre to take some rest before he was forced to continue.

On the day we were involved, some one quite grown up was learning how to swim. The moment he snatched at our tyre we began to scream and in no time got it back. But later Biren-da scolded us for not learning how to swim properly.

This is how we began our Sundays most of the weeks.  The Mother came for blessings three days a week-Sunday, Tuesday and Friday.  Once in a while She came early and we would still be out playing or swimming. Then someone would come to inform that the Mother has already come down and She has started the Blessings.

We would then rush home, get ready in no time and run to the Ashram. For it was the period when very few amongst the young people had a cycle.

After having The Mother’s Darshan we just ambled towards the D.R for our breakfast which was kept in a cupboard by a friend on prior arrangement. After eating sometimes we would just wait half lying on the eastern Verandah to have also the lunch. But that was not the end of the morning. After lunch we often went back to the Ashram to listen to The Mother’s organ playing. For on Sundays if She were free she would play on Her organ for a short period. We all rested on the Verandah in front of Nirod-da and Debu-da’s room. Quite often we slept till someone woke us up. Then it was our rooms where a good sleep and then get ready for the Play Ground. Group activities, March Past, marching, distribution and then the Mother’s class. Later on the Mother introduced Meditation on Thursdays and Sundays which continues to these days.


Washing The Mother's lunch tray

 

It was a phase in the Ashram life, which I wonder whether many of us remember. It was in mid fifties, one day we were told that Ashram was having some difficulties on monetary side and the Mother desired that all older students work in some department or other for a period of time each week. It should be noted that in those days no student was living as a mere student. All those who studied in the Ashram school were accepted by the Mother as Ashramites and naturally everyone felt the necessity to do something for the Mother and the Ashram.

Manoj-da was entrusted with the responsibility. He was to organize the students in groups to go to work in different departments.

Many went to sweep the Ashram or the school. Some went to Atelier, some to Harpagon and others to cottage Industries.

From the beginning Manoj-da went to sweep the Ashram courtyard and continued it for very many years till some unavoidable circumstance forced him to stop.

I don’t know what made me choose the fruit room of which Ravindraji was in charge. For a few days or may be a month I washed big vessels used for washing fruits for the Mother and also the butter churner. This butter was sent to the bakery for making the Mother’s bread. The day butter was prepared I had to go down across the courtyard in front of the Samadhi, cross the Meditation Hall, then by Amrita-da’s room there was a very narrow room which had a tap for hot water. Later that was altered into Amrita-da’s bedroom.

After filling the pot I had to carry it to the fruit room. There were no rooms on the western side above Prithvisingh-da’s room. They were constructed later for Ravindraji. Now there are two rooms on the first floor, in one lived Ravindraji and in the other Anuben.

But in the fifties it was an open terrace and only stairs to go up were the ones near Pavitra-da’s office which is pretty steep and to carry up a big pot of water was quite a fit.

The room in which Ravindraji initially lived was altered in a cold storage to keep fruits. Later after the Mother’s passing away it was given to the Archive section to preserve Sri Aurobindo’s & the Mother’s manuscripts.

So for a month or may be a little more I washed the big vessels and the butter churner. Then one day entering the fruit room I found Ravindraji seated. As I took up the apron he came to the sink and showing me a tray said, “Wash these,” and instructed me step by step how to do it.

It was the Mother’s lunch tray.

The tray was of medium size and there were seven or eight small cut glass tumblers and bowls of different sizes. There were also two standard size steel mugs. The small bowls and tumblers were used for serving the Mother with different fruit juices like those of apple, pineapple, grapes, pomegranates etc. and the steel ones were for flour preparation. The vegetables used to come I believe in a different tray from Her kitchen directly. After lunch this particular tray was brought into the fruit room where Ravindraji would empty all the bowls and tumblers and the mugs and then distribute them to various Ashramites as Prasad.

The vegetables and the flour preparation especially were prepared under Sanyal-da’s instruction. By mid-morning he would go to the kitchen (which is at present Grace Office) and instruct the ladies) Then he would go to the Mother.

In the fruit room I had worked may be two or three years. Kanta was the other student who worked at the same hour. One of her main tasks was to wipe those big window panes. I still remember how she straddled on a window and stretched her arm to the maximum and wiped the panes. We never saw any dust film on those windows.

Regarding the lunch tray, now and then I would go and find no tray in the sink which meant Mother still didn’t have her lunch, and it was already past one. For we began our work as in all the departments at 1pm. Sometime after waiting for a while Ravindraji or Anuben would go to see if the Mother had Her meal, if not then I would be asked to go to the school for the afternoon session which began at 2.15pm and there were only two periods of 50 mins each.

May be after three years, I stopped that work. Not because I was tired or unwilling but because something quite irritating happened. A Hindi speaking professor joined the Ashram and he was given work in the fruit room. He would be there before me and by the time I arrived my work would be done. I naturally stopped going to the fruit room. The amusing aspect is that the professor didn’t last long, after some time he left the Ashram.

After that I went to sweep the classrooms for quite a while then this work too stopped but quite a few who had joined other departments as students still work there.

Recently may be forty-forty five years after I happened to visit the fruit room and found that the whole arrangement is completely altered.

Even the sink in which we washed the Mother’s tray is replaced by a bigger one. Nothing was anymore familiar to me, where I had worked for a period of time.


Harvesting

 

In the early fifties when I came to Pondicherry only a handful of local citizens were sympathetic towards the Ashram. On the other hand there were many who had a hostile attitude and they often tried to make some mischief or the other. Gentlemen like M. Rassendran, Dr. Purno, M. Carnaut, Mme. Subrata, some govt. officers and some others participated in all Ashram activities and functions. Some were even group members. We considered them as our own people. In that period the biggest obstacle was a political party and their leader in particular. That individual tried every possible way to hinder the smooth working of the Ashram departments having paid workers (I was told by a Sadhak who had joined the Ashram in the late thirties that the Mother was not so much interested to hire hands to do the works of the Ashram as much she was keen to help them to learn to earn his/her livelihood with dignity and self respect).

Naturally in course of time the Mother allowed the Ashram activities to expand, thus many paid workers were added. Apart from the departments there are also quite many gardens and farms: Cazanove, Riziere, High land, Irumbai, Lefaucheur and others. In some of these paddy is cultivated regularly. Thus these were a substantial number of paid workers.  These labourers were quite content to work yet at the time of harvest there would always be discontent muttering regarding payment, working hours etc, etc.

In (1954-55) this dissatisfaction took a stronger turn and the labourers decided not to harvest the paddy in Cazanove. The Mother was informed about the situation and she naturally decided that the young sadhaks and older students will do the harvesting under Mona-da’s supervision.

A notice was put up on the Ashram notice board to give names. We were eager to join, few of my friends and I. But Mona-da with a stern look pronounced, “Green group? Too young to go for this type of work.” But our friend “H” continued to plead with him; finally he said, “I shall see”. We were in tenter hooks: “Will he allow us? Will he not?”

When the list was put up on the notice board with names, we found that our names were added at the end.

On the appointed day for Harvesting we assembled near The Play Ground. A lorry and some other vehicles were there to take us to Cazanove.

Sudhir-da and Kanchan-di who lived there kept everything ready for us: sickles, ropes, strings, wheel barrow and water pots with some tumblers. After reaching Cazanove we all assembled at a prearranged spot. Mona-da explained as how the work was to proceed and we were asked to begin cutting the stocks immediately. We, being youngest of the lot were asked to move behind those who were cutting, gather them and tie to be transported to the thrashing area.

The work was a great fun! We danced, sang short snatches of this and that, pulled at each other’s heap and then tied the bundles to be taken away.

After a while a young man made us not only to make the bundles but also to carry them to the thrashing area; ignorant as we were, we lifted the stocks on our arms and in no time the arms began to itch. When we complained about that, we were advised to carry them on our head. But then the face began to itch. We dared not complain again for fear of being ridiculed by many. It would be something like this; “What? An Indian girl and you don’t know how to carry a bundle of paddy! Shame, shame on you!”

We carried quite a few bundles and then sat under a tree muttering we were tired and hungry.

The breakfast was to come from the Dining Room. In its sweet time the meal arrived and some older ladies took up the responsibility to serve. Then we began to clamor for Banana leaf. When we are eating in a field, not on a Banana leaf! The idea was rejected out right and we were scolded severely for all these demands. We were there for doing a specific job and not to have fun. It was no Picnic.

As the day progressed the work too went on quite smoothly. After our breakfast the work was taken up and Sudhir-da came to inspect the progress. For it was a already time for him to cycle down to the town and inform the Mother through Nalini-da or Amrita-da how the work was progressing.

The day didn’t pass from minute to hour but ran from morning to early after noon.

The lunch arrived the same way as breakfast. We were all dirty with mud & bits of straw. In Cazanove there is a reservoir like a pond and boys just in their shorts entered into water.

The girl had no such luck. There was a very small bathroom, possibly for Kanchandi’s use, so we all took our turn and tried to have our hands cleaned at least.

As those who were serving got impatient we hurried and took our dish and sat to eat. What a delicious lunch we had that day! It was the same routine preparation of the D.R. which when we eat in D.R. often grumble saying it was most tasteless etc.

But.....!

By late afternoon we had to stop the work as no one was allowed to miss group activities.  The next day we continued to work and by afternoon thrashing began in full swing. I don’t remember whether we had completed the harvesting i.e. cutting, thrashing, putting in the sun etc.

I believe the paid workers were rather dismayed that without their help the work was getting done & that they would profit in no way. They came to an understanding with the Ashram authorities and came back to work & completed the rest of the harvesting.

In 1972 a similar situation arose and the Mother decided that the inmates will do the harvesting. We who were having our work couldn’t join, which would mean leaving the classes. But the elders remembered what we did in the fifties and now and then one of them would say, “You too I believe had done harvesting. Do you remember!”


The Dance Teacher From Sri Lanka

 

It was the period when we were privileged to learn different schools of classical dance from different visiting teachers. One who left a deep impact on our dancing was Sri Premkumarfrom Sri Lanka.

It was in mid-fifties and the Mother was still coming to the Play Ground and participated in all that was presented: dance by students, plays written by Sadhaks. For all cultural programme She consented to be present and later give Her opinion.

All these functions were generally held either on Darshan days or on rare occasions on other days also. In order to learn from a visiting teacher we were obliged to give some extra time. Where did we find it?

The regular Play Ground routine for us began at 5 or 5.30 pm. So there was an hour between 4 pm and 5 pm which would be utilized; the time between group activities and March Past and if necessary even after school after 11.30 am.

Now there were naturally regular classes of dance, music, piano but that was only for an hour or so per week. That definitely was not enough if the visiting artist was to stay, say for a fortnight. So all these periods of time were used to their maximum. Where did we practice? In the dance Hall certainly but some times even in the school courtyard or in the hall above which is now an annex to the Hall of Harmony.

Sisir-da who was the Joint Director of the Education Centre used to live in the school premises and he always had an extra key for us, when needed. So, on such occasion we were occupied all through the day.

Charukaka or Motakaka as we all called him for he was a mountain of a man and Pranab- da’s uncle but not the eldest.. He was a great admirer and connoisseur of act and artist. He used to play Pakhwaj and that too really well, it was he who had arranged a Gala program of dance of different classical styles on the occasion of the Mother’s eightieth birth anniversary.

It was again Motakaka who arranged to invite a dance teacher from Sri Lanka to come and teach us dance. Thus we came in contact with Sri Premkumar who was visiting Shantiniketan on a teaching assignment and agreed to visit Pondicherry on his way back home. He had specialized in the Kandy school of dance and we hadn’t even heard the name.

Sisir-da who taught at Shantiniketan prior to his joining the Ashram was brought into the picture. Motakaka requested him to see that all the arrangements for the artist’s stay were well organized.

The evening Sri Premkumar was to arrive, a few friends informed me in the Play Ground that I must meet Sisir-da as it was most urgent. It was simply that Sisir-da wanted me to go on the next morning to the house where the artist with his wife and daughter was put up and give them a rough idea about the programme of the Ashram especially that of the D.R.

Next day in the afternoon after school we went to meet Sri Premkumar. Anuben introduced us all individually. Introduction over we sat in semi-circle and he explained the specialty and uniqueness of Kandy dance. He was requested to show us something but Anuben cut us short saying that we were to start that very evening after group activities.

For me at least Sri Premkumar was grace incarnate. What movement! How beautiful the gesture of eyes and hands. What expression! The moment he began to dance one felt as if he was transported to a realm of beauty and grace.

Similar emotions I felt witnessing a short programme by the renowned Bharatnatyam exponent Sri Dhananjayan.

Premkumar began to teach us, the movements were stylised and slow. It was he who made us aware of the grace with which an elephant walks. Many steps in Kandy dance imitate the slow movement of an elephant.

We were more than twenty learning from him. At a certain point he realised that he couldn't present just a dance or two in front of the Mother. So he choreographed another dance; the theme being “Harvest” with a short Ceylonese song.

Sunil-da consented to compose the music for the folk dance, but for Kandy dance the only instrument required was a particular type of drum played only in Sri Lanka. Motakaka, I believe made a lot of enquiries but couldn’t find any in Pondy, ultimately Pakhawaj was used.

Folk dance was taught to everyone but he chose eight boys and sixteen girls to perform. The music was composed, recorded, the dance more or less learnt and it was nearly time for Sri Premkumar to leave. We started to rehearse even at 11.30 after school to be able to present a nice programme to the Mother. It was a fortnight when we lived, talked and breathed dance! A most wonderful experience!

For Kandy dance Millie-di stitched some skirt under Sri Premkumar’s instructions. There were no accessories other than some flowers on hair.

The evening we were to present the dance we were full of excitement. A platform quite high was erected on the western side of the Play Ground near the guest house. We got dressed and made up in the long room from where at present eggs are distributed.

The Harvest dance was performed on the ground the cast being too big. On the platform only the Kandy dances were staged. Sri Premkumar and Anuben concluded the programme with a duet.

Later we were told that after the performance when Sri Premkumar knelt before The Mother, She not only praised his performance but also thanked him for teaching such beautiful dances to Her children.

The folk dance was a great success. We danced it again and again to a point that it entered into our subconscious. Even after nearly fifty years just the music and the word “Megantere” and we are back to our period of learning with Sri Premkumar.


Srimati Roshan Ghosh and her husband Dr. Hiranmay Ghosh

 

In the field of art, science, literature, there are periods when the history gets studded with star performers. Be it literature, painting, music or dance. In India twentieth century was one such.

In all the above mentioned fields there were super personalities and this continued till the seventies of the last century.

When we were young the world of classical dance was full of great artists. Rukmini Devi, Uday Shankar and their contemporaries pulled out the Indian dance from its obscene status and gave to it its due respectability by showing how great this particular performing art was.

The young generation consisted of guru Gopinath, Ram Gopal, Travancore sisters, Wazifdar sisters, Sitara Devi and many more.

I have had the opportunity to learn dance from one of the Wazifder sisters, Smt. Roshan Ghosh who lived for a year or so in the Ashram. It was then that she taught us Bharatnatyam.

I believe it was her husband Dr. Hiranmay Ghosh who came in contact with the Ashram in late forties or in 1950 for he had the Darshan of Sri Aurobindo.

There is a story narrated even today that when Dr. Hiranmay Ghosh stood in front of the Mother and Sri Aurobindo, on the occasion of a Darshan, Sri Aurobindo looked at the man and later commented, “Master mind”. Many of the older generation knew him as Master mind and never bothered to know his real name.

Roshanben was to perform “Geeta Govinda” on the school court yard. There was a powerful bulb at the corner of “Nouvelle Verandah” which used to light the whole of courtyard. Dr. Ghosh saw the light and wanted to know how we used that light during the programme.  I replied, “We can’t use it. It is put off during the programme”.

He, at once, called his driver and asked him to buy some blue cellophane paper. When the paper arrived he asked one of the younger men who were helping with the preparation of light and screen to cover the light on the verandah with that paper. When the task was done, he looked at the light with satisfaction and commented, “Now Radha shall dance in a moonlit night. Let the light be on the through out the performance”.

This reminds me also of an incident he had once narrated to me. For it gives a glimpse of what that individual was.

During the Second World War he was in France working as a physiotherapist for the army fighting the Nazi force. This is what he narrated.

One day a young soldier arrived with grievous wounds. There wasn’t any hope of his survival. When I went to visit the wounded soldier to see what I could do to give some relief, he caught my hand and pleaded, “Doctor, please save me; I want to live.”

I promised saying I would try my best. But I knew the task was impossible, yet there is no harm in trying. So I took up, so to say the challenge and with the permission of the authorities sat by the side of the young man. My intension was that he should have some physical contact with some one. On turn we held his hand, then I sat by him most of the time but after a period I became extremely tired and needed refreshing myself. I called one of the helpers and requested him to sit in my place and be sure that there is physical contact. I went leaving the patient and after half an hour when returned found the soldier dead, the helper fast asleep and there was no contact between the two. We all were exhausted; so naturally as the helper sat his body began to relax and fell asleep. I believe as long as we consciously willed the man to live and held his hand he couldn’t die. But once the contact was gone he just left his body. But with our effort we kept him alive for two whole days.

Roshan Wazifdar married Dr. Ghosh and settled at Kodaikanal. They had a very big farm in a near by village. Dr.Ghosh not only busied himself with the farm but used to work also as a physiotherapist for a very selected number of patients. He did social work in the village for which he was very much loved and respected by the villagers.

In the early sixties Roshanben began to visit the Ashram. Anuben was then invited by friends to visit the States. When Anuben’s visit was confirmed she requested Roshan Ghosh to teach the students of the ashram. According to my knowledge of this particular school, Roshanben was a Bharatnatyam dancer par excellence. The Wazifdar sisters were as famous as the Travancore sisters of the south.

On an auspicious day we began to learn from Roshanben. And true to her learning she began with Adavus, movements of eyes, gestures of hands, neck movements. It was just exhilarating to be able to learn the very fundamentals of the art in detail, as such we had been learning items from different teachers coming from different schools. But it was with Roshanben that we began to learn Bharatnatyam in systematic manner. The younger students loved her way of teaching so much that before group activities they would gather in small groups and make, say Hastas and repeat-pataka, tripataka etc.

Roshanben was a perfectionist. She wasn’t someone to be satisfied with anything halfway done. She narrated to us how their teacher made them repeat a single gesture or a foot work till it was done to their satisfaction.

We learnt substantial amount of techniques and quite a few items, we learnt how to conduct a class, how to distinguish the talas, specially the south Indian verities. We learnt to say the bols beating on two wooden pieces and above all we realized what work a classical dancer puts in to be a true dancer.

For Roshanben dance wasn’t a simple form of art, for her it was the fifth “Veda” as the Natyashastra claims it to be. And her dance was her life and her Sadhana.

When she danced, nothing could disturb her. She entered in a different world, this complete dedication to her art gave her performance a special quality. As I said she was a perfectionist. What I am going to say may prove that.

She chose “Geeta Govinda” for one of her dance recitals. After the songs were recorded, relevant verses from the great poem recited by different renowned artists she went to Pune’s Bharat Khand Institute. There she sat with half a dozen Sanskrit scholars, who listened to the songs and recitations. Whenever they indicated an error in pronunciation, she noted down. Later she got all those rerecorded. While she gave me an audio cassette of “Geeta Govinda”, to use for our school programmes, she then mentioned that only for correction she had paid by thousands.

Roshanben not only gave us the traditional aspect of a classical dance but also made us aware of why the Mother wanted us to create something new. The Mother wanted us to break away from the old traditional schools and create something new (Anuben tried with us exactly that). The Mother always said that dance should be the expression of the entire body and not specialized gestures or movements of a particular part or parts of the body.

She certainly was for something new in the field of dance. We understood that very clearly when a dancer, Rolf, from South America visited the Ashram. He had the privilege to present something to the Mother in Her room in the Ashram. Seeing him it seems, She commented “This is what dance should be”.

   For us the lessons we had from Roshanben helped us a great deal to innovate and create our style. The fact remains that whatever we may attempt to create some fundamental knowledge is essential and that we learnt from Roshanben.


Sadabala

 

The only inmate of the Ashram who had the privilege to sit on Sri Aurobindo’s lap was possibly Sadabala. Bala’s father Sada (That’s how he was known in the Ashram) was connected to this small Ashram community. He would often bring along his baby daughter and leave her at the feet of the Master and go to help in the Ashram chores.

As the baby grew she began to crawl all over the room and slowly holding on to Sri Aurobindo’s legs stand up. From that step to climb up to the lap wasn’t difficult.

Once she confided to one of the Sadhikas who was her co-worker in the Press, “I used to climb on Aiya’s lap; sit facing him and then catch hold of his beard”.

This child grew up to be quite a pretty woman. On another occasion she with a lot of regret spoke about one of her follies.

In those early days of the Ashram on the occasion of Diwali the Mother used to distribute saris & dhotis with Her own hand to the workers of various departments. Bala always received a white sari with a stitched red border. She realised that her sari was always a little old and different from what the others received. Naturally she became curious and wanted to know why it was so. And what she found out didn’t please her in the least. The fact was that she was receiving a dhoti worn by Sri Aurobindo. The Mother would take a dhoti, get some red border, give them to a particular Sadhika to stitch it on the dhoti.

When Bala found out why she was receiving same of kind of Sari, she wasn’t happy at all and went and complained to the Mother.

The Mother informed Sri Aurobindo regarding Bala’s displeasure. Sri Aurobindo then suggested that she be given a sari as the others. Thus her privilege of   receiving a dhoti used by Sri Aurobindo came to an end.

When Bala became infirm due to illness she would request her press co-workers to visit her. Then she would often go back to her early childhood & narrate many incidents.

There was one in which she took great pride. She would say “It seems when my father got married Aiya had come with the others to grace the occasion. Not only that, he even partook of the marriage feast.”

Even having so much contact with the Mother and the Ashram she entered to the mundane family life. She had two sons who were neither interested in Ashram life nor had any respect for anything spiritual.

The Mother had sanctioned for Bala every thing that a Sadhak or Sadhika received from the Ashram. And when her sons refused to look after her even after getting everything from the Ashram, the authorities arranged for her a room at New Creation. Then the sons used to visit only when they needed something from her. She was sad about the treatment she received from them otherwise lived quite contented by being an Ashramite in its full sense.


Anju Sen the State Tennis Champion

Anju di was a delightful personality. She taught Geography to the younger students of the school. The subject was taught in English but we began our Geography lessons with Madame Subrata who taught it in French. Madame Subrata was in all respects a lady of the early twentieth Century. She wore deep colour frocks, hair in a very special way tied; the lips red with lipstick and the cheek aglow with rouge. She came to school on a pousse pousse, got down from it with care and difficulty as she had a good height as well as weight. She entered the class room with measured steps. Sat on the chair and gave us a long dictation. It was in French and we who had just began to learn the language could hardly write a sentence correctly. But to encourage us she often gave us eleven or even twelve out of ten. I believe during summer she had gone to France and then we had as teacher  Anjudi.

Anju-di by nature was a very mild person. She could never scold any student even if she/he was disturbing the class.

Anju-di was a very good tennis player. As far as I recollect Sutapa and she played with The Mother quite regularly. The concentration with which the sent the ball back to The Mother was something of great admiration. Pranab-da was The Mother’s partner and all the rest who played with Her were on the other side of the net. These players tried to send the ball in The Mother’s reach. Sometimes if the ball fell a little far then The Mother ran a few short steps and tried to send the ball back.

In the fifties and even in the early sixties there were matches between Ashram groups with local groups sometimes players from other parts of the country too came o play against our players.

It so happened there was a tennis match in the  Circle “Sportif” for women and our players also participated. In the final it was Anju-di verses one local lady.

As we had the permission to visit these places, some of us went to “Circle Sportif” to enjoy the game and at the same time encourage Anju-di. The match began but we had to rush back to The Playground for March-Past. And after the March-Past one never knew at what time The Mother would come out for Concentration. So we just waited impatiently in The Playground for the result. Slowly some whisper in one corner some whisper on another corner discussing that Anju-di was the winning player. What excitement amongst us! Finally we heard that Anju-di had won and she was on her way to The Playground with the trophy.

By then The Mother’s distribution was over and she had gone to Her restroom. Playground was all subdued noise with excitement. Anju-di entered The Playground and The Mother was informed about it. The Mother came out of Her room and there was Anju-di waiting for Her on the door! Anju-di offered the cup to The Mother, The Mother received it with a heavenly smile on Her lips.

This is a past event and many of us have forgotten it. But for me The Mother on the door with a smile and Anju-di offering the trophy still is a very vivid picture. I always associated Anju-di with that particular moment. If eel it will remain with me always.

She left us on March 20th, 2010.

Anuben

A student of the great dance maestro Uday Shankar, a sadhika, a teacher of Hindi, the head of the dancing section of the Center of Education. The principal of Udavi School: that was Anuben.

After joining the school I somehow gravitated towards dance, though I danced very rarely when much younger.

Every Sunday there used to be music class with Sahana-di and dance class with Anuben though I began to attend the music classes, I discontinued them for some reason or other and gave myself fully to dance.

Anuben was fortunate to have such a great dancer like UDAY Sankar as her teacher and later The Mother to guide her in her creativity. Uday Sankar as we know developed a unique style of his own. It was based on no single school of Indian classical school of dance but a beautiful synthesis. Movement after movement were executed and nothing was ever created in the field of dance so beautiful and harmonious! Naturally Anuben must have participated in all those novel creations. She imbibed a great deal from all those creations.

When she began to teach in The Ashram, she had instruction from The Mother to evolve something new. The Mother wanted a new type of dance in which the body as a whole will express different emotions and not only the face with traditional codified gestures.

We have heard that for the 1st December programme she, Millie-di and Norman-da would go together to The Mother to discuss and get Her approval. In early fifties the programmes used to be very long as there used to be some dance drama, songs, ballet if Monique and her husband were visiting The Ashram, a play written by The Mother. And to conclude the programme of the evening a section from “Savitri” was enacted in which Amita-di was always chosen by The Mother to act as Savitri. We have heard that whenever Anuben danced on 1st December’ The Mother opened her wardrobe and chose a sari for Anuben to wear for her item.

Anuben did her best to infuse in us the ideas she received from The Mother, and always encouraged us to create something new. She wanted us to evolve a new style of dance, something that could be an effort trying to express what The Mother wanted. But with time everything has changed. Now the students learn some classical form and that’s that. We were exposed to very many forms of dancing, anyone with a knowledge of dance was invited by Anuben to teach us something new. Thus once for a fortnight we had a crash course of Kandy style of dance from Sri Lanka.

Regarding her work at “Udavi” we need to say a little about how she was entrusted with teaching there. I have already spoken about how “Udavi” school came into being. It was solely founded by Nata-da. When the school began to function he asked Anuben to help him. She I believe began with the creative aspects of education- i.e. dance, music, drawing etc. But after Nata-da’s demise Anuben became the director of The School. By then the govt. of India had recognized the school and the students were allowed to sit for class ten examinations.

One year at the instigation of a certain union leader employees of “Udavi” went to strike demanding more pay and many other perks. The saddest part of the whole movement was that the workers forced the management to close down the school as well. Naturally those students who were to sit for their class ten exams were going to lose one year. But that was not acceptable to Anuben. She couldn’t let the students lose a year. So she decided to help them; and with The Ashram authorities she made arrangements. The students were to come to Pondicherry every morning. They were to have their lessons as per schedule and were to return home in the late afternoon. The “Dancing Hall” of the Center of Education became temporarily a classroom, desks, chairs and tables were supplied by different departments of The Ashram. Udavi school teachers commuted every morning from Pondicherry. They willingly agreed to help the students and thus the students of Udavi school got ready to sit in their class ten examination.

Anuben continued to work at Udavi school even after it was handed over to Auroville.

Biren-da (Press)


Once while talking about Centres all over the world, Dyumanbhai mentioned that the very first “Sri Aurobindo Center” was established at Chittagong (Chattagram of Bangladesh). And its influence was considerable. In the late thirties, early forties and even later on many were inspired by Sri Aurobindo’s life and came to have darshan of the Mother & The Master. They didn’t return. One such pioneer was Biren-da. Always in dhoti and Chadar, hair hanging up to the waist, walking on the road head-bent reading a book or a news-paper. He had deep knowledge of Bengali literature, religious books, Puranas, Bhagavat Geeta. I have heard him speak on various subjects with authority where the subject was related to religion or spirituality.

For a year and a half I had lived in the house which was called “Prasad House” where Mridu-di, then Pramod Chattopadhyaya and lastly Lalita lived. I had to shift there temporarily because the house in which I was then living was getting renovated. With me lived Soma-di. She too was from Chittagong. In fact she with five of her cousins were inmates of the Ashram. One of her cousins was Chinmoy da who left the Ashram and became a well-known Guru and he conducted regularly meditations in UNO every week. Soma-di had always been interested in going for outing; any chance any time and she was ready. Biren-da too had the habit of going out and walking for miles in the nature. I was told that there was a period when a few young ladies of the Ashram would join Biren-da and spend the morning in open air, be it at the lake or the “Red Hills”.

Possibly this love for nature created a bond between them and they looked upon each other as siblings. Biren-da lived next door and now and then he would drop in to sit with us and go back to early days of his life in the Ashram.

I didn’t know him very well till I went to live in “Prasad House”. But some of his recollections are quite interesting and I feel some may enjoy knowing them.

He spoke about milking of cows on the road below first floor Balcony of the Ashram. He had joined the Ashram when the local milkmen came and milked the cows on St. Gilles Street. Early morning they would gather and then The Mother came to stand on a small terrace which was above Her car garage. The milking would take place under Her supervision. After which the milk was taken to Prasad House which is at present the Accounts Office of the Ashram. Biren-da carried the milk, boiled it and then brought it to the Dining Hall; which was a part of the Prosperity Office.

He also remembered The Mother’s going out in Her car in the afternoon. The Mother used to go out in Her car at 4 pm (we have a photograph of it) and it was quite regular on “Ayudha Puja” day. The workers of the Ashram departments celebrated the Puja which continues to this day. The Mother on this occasion visited the departments and the workers offered their puja at Her feet.

But after one such occasion The Mother became ill and after that she stopped this routine. She even stopped going out at 4 pm.

After Her recovery She went to the first floor terrace and walked for quite sometime. Seeing Her walking the Sadhaks who worked in the Ashram stood on the courtyard below. Slowly the number increased.

This recollection too belongs to the early thirties of the last century.

The Mother used to give Blessings at 7 AM everyday. First Datta used to go to The Mother then Nolini-da. After that The Mother would come down and sit where we have a painting of The Mother and Sri Aurobindo by Pramod Chatterjee. After she took Her seat there would be a short meditation and then She began to give blessings. But two days in a month there would be no Blessings as The Mother washed Her hair.

It was the period when Biren-da worked with Nolini-da. Biren-da had to go to The Main Post Office and collect the post of the day and leave it in Nolini-da’s room. Biren-da noticed that though there were no Blessings yet Nolini-da had fresh flowers in his room. One day while Biren-da was passing through the courtyard, Nolini-da called him from the terrace of Dyumanbhai’s room and asked him to wait.

Then The Mother came and looked down, seeing Biren-da below waiting, She threw a flower at him to catch. She used to dry Her hair walking on the terrace of Dyumanbhai’s room.

Biren-da shared with us very many other incidents but as I had not written them down, I remember them only in bits and pieces!

Biren-da (The Captain)


Biren-da was the captain of the then Khaki group. I have already spoken about him in another context. When The Swimming pool was constructed, he was given the charge to teach swimming and be there every afternoon to see that members from all the groups (those who were interested in swimming) used the pool in a proper way.

Biren-da was frankness and straight-forwardness personified. He never minced his words. He called a spade a spade.

The day Sahana-di passed away, I met him on the way to the Playground and informed him of Sahana-di’s demise. He then uttered a very significant statement, “there goes another of those who came to serve The Mother and The Master. You know in earlier days everyone who was a sadhak had but one single aim: to serve The Mother and The Master. Now the inmates serve their managers.”

Biren-da loved to go outing. Once we, a few girls requested him to take us to lake. He put up a condition – we have to walk all the way to Lake. If we are ready to do that, he will arrange for the outing. We agreed to walk.
In the evening, at the playground, after the distribution our group approached The Mother with the list of us all. After going through the list she asked “With whom?”
“With Biren-da Douce Mere.” We replied. Biren-da who was waiting nearby came and stood behind us. The Mother looked at him and said “Too far!” and wrote on the list “Red Hills”; signed it and handed it to Biren-da.

    On two occasions I had the privilege to visit quite a few historical places in South India. Once we visited Kanchipuram and all around. Most of us associate the town with its famous saris. How many of us know that in olden days it was a great seat of learning. In fact there was a university in Kanchipuram which was as important as Nalanda or Takshashila. The most important subject was Sanskrit language & its literature.

Entering a temple and going around admiring the architecture & the sculpture he would become ecstatic and repeat again and again: “See, enjoy. What work of art our forefathers have left behind for us. Be proud and grateful.”

For our weekly film-show Biren-da used to be one of those who spread an old bedsheet or bedcover to sit on the ground. I had my place by his side. What used to amuse me was that just after a while Biren-da used to go to sleep. If we saw a long film he would wake up and begin to comment on what we were seeing. I felt that after the day’s work he must have been tired & thus snoozed off. Once throughout a film he slept and I had to wake him up when the lights went on. I naturally commented “Biren-da, often during the film we see you sleeping. Why don’t you remain at home and  go to bed!”

He answered “Do you think I come to see the film! I am present here because The Mother had begun a programme and we should respect Her gesture and be present there.”

Dr. Sudhir Bose


A sadhak who served The Mother till the last day of his life was Dr. Sudhir Bose. Whole morning he saw patients, went to the Ashram, came back to his room with a lot of difficulties and passed away at night in JIPMER.

Khirod-da his eldest brother was the first to join the Ashram. He left his brothers and sisters with the widowed mother and came to Pondicherry. He never went back.  Dr. Sudhir and his other brothers had to complete their studies in a rather difficult monetary condition. Dr. Sudhir passed his LHS degree in medicine which was a degree not quite MBBS but one who passed LHS was allowed to practice medicine. He then joined one of his brothers in Mornai Tea Estate in Assam as the Medical Officer.

The daily life was comfortable as the sole medical officer not only of the Tea garden but also of the surrounding villages. But there was no social life as such. Handful of officers of the tea garden naturally felt bored. The only way to divert themselves was to go once in a while hunting. In the early thirties & forties of the last century anybody who was somebody indulged in that royal sport. Once Dr. Sudhir Bose, his brother and some forest officers had killed a tiger. When the Bose family came to visit the Ashram, offered the skin to The Mother. It was spread out for a very long time in The Mother’s restroom of the Play ground.

After Khirod-da, Jalad-da came and joined the Ashram. Then came four children of the third brother to study in the Ashram school, In this way the family began to make the Ashram their home. Dr. Sudhir Bose was also eager to join the Ashram therefore when he visited he would ,through Amrita-da, send his letter praying The Mother to let him live in the Ashram. But every time The Mother’s answer would be “When I need you, I shall call you.”

That particular year he returned to his job quite unhappy. His feeling was that The Mother would never allow him to be an Ashramite for what need can she have from a person like him! But wonder of wonders he received a letter from Amrita-da that he should resign and come to Pondicherry as The Mother had a specific work for him.

In the fifties and even earlier Nripen-da was the chief Allopath doctor. He not only had to treat all the inmates of The Ashram, the visitors, even the paid workers of all the Ashram departments. As time passed the number of inmates increased so did the number of paid workers. The Mother in a very steady way created various new departments. Naturally daily number of patients increased and for Nripen-da too it was a very heavy load. It was then that the Mother decided to open another dispensary exclusively for the paid workers.

He arrived but the dispensary was not yet ready. It was a series of four garages belonging to a rich local lady Padmini. When Padmini came to know that The Mother wanted that place to open a dispensary for the paid workers; she offered it to The Mother as the place will be used for the wellbeing of the local people. It seems The Ashram had to spend very little amount to buy the property.

The four garages were to be made usable, one as the dispensary, one as the pharmacy, one as the waiting place for the patients and one for the doctor who would be living there. The inauguration took place on 30th January. The Mother came to inaugurate the dispensary which she did for each and every department. After The Mother’s blessing and distribution of sweets She was informed that the open piece of land adjacent to the garages is believed to be haunted as there was a suicide there. The Mother walked through the rooms reaching every corner and then she went out and did likewise on the open ground. She suggested that there should come up a small garden and everyday an incense stick should be lighted. Then she turned it seems towards Amrita-da and wished that one doctor must live in the room prepared as the living quarter.

Two doctors Dr. Sudhir Bose and Dr. Jyotish Das Gupta were given the responsibility of this department. Now Jyotish Das Gupta was a doctor in the first world war. After the war he it seems wanted to leave everything and become a sadhu. With that intention he went to The Himalayas looking for a guru. There he met a sadhu whom Das Gupta thought to be a genuine seeker of truth. So Das Gupta prayed to be accepted as his disciple. But the holy man it seems replied that the time for leaving hearth & home had not come yet. He has to live a family life and he will find his guru in South India. Das Gupta returned, married, had children and then came to know about the Mother, went back & came with family to live in the Ashram. This is what one his daughters narrated to us.

When Amrita-da put up the suggestion of the Mother Dr. Sudhir Bose readily agreed to live in the dispensary.

The dispensary began to function. Dr. Sudhir Bose attended to the patients in the morning and Dr. Das Gupta in the afternoon. Dr. Sudhir Bose whom I called kaka for he was the youngest brother of a very dear friend of mine – Bithi who now lives near Auroville and works at Auro Orchard & Udavi school - took to the habit of sending a monthly report to The Mother of the number of patients treated in the dispensary. The Mother used to go through the report, write down Her comments with Her Blessings. This continued till kaka’s passing away.

Kaka was a tea addict. In his room there was always two flasks of tea ready for those with whom he had friendly relation. It was a concoction made by lots of boiling and minimum of tea leaf. Above that it was sweetened with saccharine as he was a diabetic patient. Many accepted the cup just because Doctor offered it to them.

Regarding his treatment he was an old fashioned practitioner. For many ailments he prescribed a certain mixture. He prepared himself the basic mixtures with the help of a helper and according to the illness he added to his basic mixtures other components. For instance if it was cold & cough he would take a particular basic mixture and add to it something like extract of glycerlizra or Hyosemus; if it was something to do with stomach then in another basic mixture he added say vitazyme or something that will help. He even prepared quite a few ointments in the dispensary; the aim being to run the department as economically as possible.

He loved people around him. Some would come early in the morning, have a cup of tea and spend some time with him; others in the evening and be with him again over a cup of tea.

After I had completed my higher course studies kaka requested Amrita-da to get permission from the Mother to allow me to work in the dispensary. But by then Kireet bhai already requested The Mother to allow me to teach in the school. Then the Mother decided who was to work where. She had consented to my work in the school and kaka was informed about the decision. But Amrita-da said “If she can find sometime after doing her duty in the school and if she agrees to it, she may do so.”

Along with my teaching schedule, I began to go the dispensary irregularly, but slowly it became very regular as he needed someone to keep an eye on the medicine stock, as he was helped by two paid employees. In time it became my responsibility too to see and regulate his diet as he was highly diabetic and also suffered from high blood pressure.

On that particular day the moment I entered the dispensary he informed me that though he was not feeling very well yet he has to go to the Ashram for an urgent work. I should remind him before I go back to school. He had been unwell for quite a few months.

He completed the first rush of patient consultations and went to the Ashram, retired with great difficulty to his room and collapsed on the floor. In the afternoon was taken to the Ashram Nursing Home; from there to JIPMER where he breathed his last.

Krishnakumarji, Ila-di and others.


It will not be fair if I don’t say something about the teachers who had been motherly towards us, especially those who lived without their parents.

To name only a few there were Ila-di, Indulekha-di, Rani di, Rajkumarji, Krishnakumariji. All these teachers taught me in the very first year in the Ashram school.

Krishna Kumariji and Rajkumariji were my first French teachers. They were sisters. After they were accepted by The Mother, she directed them to Bharti-di, a French lady to learn French. After a year of quite intensive work The Mother asked them to teach the younger students. Because whenever One teaches a subject, one is obliged to learn it better. That was The Mother’s opinion. So they began to teach.

Rajkumariji was very motherly, she looked upon us her own and if any of her students showed any impertinence, he/she could very well receive a slap as a mother would to correct. She knew that corporal punishment was forbidden in our school. So she tried to help all of us to learn discipline and study, but then there is always an exception either way. For a long period she would try to correct the individual but if she failed by persuasive manners she did not hesitate to be harsh with the errant student.


After a considerable 0period I met her on the road and we approached each other to greet. After some exchanges she advised me “Try to know your body. You should know it better than the others.” It was after I had a major operations.

Krishna-kumariji continued to teach till the end of her life. In the fifties and sixties she, Tanmay-da and Jayantibhai came together to create a curricular for the junior students. They prepared exercise in grammar, simplified texts; Wrote simple stories. Handwrote all these and then got them cyclostyled. Stories in easy French and profit. Many may not know, but then we neither had Bibliotheque choisic nor Resource Centre. A very mall library under Medhananda-da was on the first floor East block of the school. But after The Mother bought the present Library House, that library too got shifted there. There teaching contribution in learning French in our school is immense.

They in time began to teach in higher classes and as I was with the junior students and still am they left all those works in my care. Going through all there one can perceive what labour they had put in to help the students.

Krishnakumariji had acquired such mastery over French that whenever any writing of Sri Aurobindo was translated to be published in the Bulletin, it had to be sent to Krishnakumariji, it was only after her approval and signature was it sent to the press for printing.

Ila-di was one of the sadhikas who used to decorate The Samadhi with flowers. She, Prabha-di (Dipu’s mother) Meenakshiamma (Kittu and Bharati’s mother) Banalata-di, Shivarani-di, Light-di and a few others were the first group of ladies who were entrusted with this sacred work. Most of them were middle-aged. Once in a while if we went to the Ashram very early in the morning, we saw these ladies engrossed at decorating. Here I may just add an interesting note.

One morning I met Meenakshiamma at the Post office. We greeted each other and then she said that she was extremely happy. The cause? Just a few minutes back she met Amrita-da who informed her that The Mother remarked “Meenakshi washes The Samadhi with love and devotion.”

We all know that the walls of The Samadhi are thoroughly washed on every Sunday noon. As long as she was able, The Mother used to stand at Her window and observe the sadhaks and sadhikas working on The Samadhi.

Ila-di (mother of Chitra-di & Amita-di) taught Bengali. We had been her students for very many years why I am unable to say. Ila-di was of that age when one was not to argue with an elder, one was not to answer when scolded. We who were of that period tried to follow these rules. It was expected of us. Ila-di worked in the Dining Hall at the lunch hour. She distributed bread and banana. If per chance we took less dal or rice she caught our dish and chiding put a couple of spices and “Doing so much of exercises and not eating enough will ruin your health.” We accepted the slices and quietly walked out.

I had very little contact with Rani-di. The very first year she taught me English and one year Bengali. But she had a presence of her own. The lady with old world charm came, taught and made us feel: here was one to whom one could go. She was simple and at the same time very elegant. One could see her standing for minutes near the wall of Pujalalji’s room concentrating.

Indulekha-di on the other hand was a very down to earth person. She was Nolinida’s wife. She was such an unassuming person that visitors didn’t even know who she was and once in a while she was shooed away from Nalini-da’s door telling her not to disturb him.

One could see her coming to The Ashram early in the morning with her head bowed down, waling with small steps. She taught English in the morning and Bengali in the afternoon. She had a pencil half blue and half red with which she corrected our notebooks. Even while explaining to us our mistakes she looked at the notebook and once in a while asked “Have you understood?” For Bengali it was different. She expected us to know at least the rudimentary of the language, and if we uttered or wrote anything bordering to a howler she looked at us with such expression that we felt ashamed.

She was the mother of Ranju-da, Manju-da and Robi-da. Whatever obligation she felt towards them, it was not to be above her Ashram work: to come to school on time and teach.

Nata-da


Alberto Grassi was a count from Florence. He came to Pondicherry in 1963-64? And soon began to teach Italian. He was an engineer by profession, who had migrated to South America after the second world war and lived there, from where he came to Pondicherry.

Kalyan-da, the son of famous beenteo of big games Kumud Ranjan Chaudhuri knew Italian and he taught the language only to a selected few. But after Nata-da (This is the name The Mother had given him), arrived quite a big group joined his classes.

He conducted his classes in the evening, thus everyone who wanted to learn could assist. We were a group of some eight, ten students, all of us working in some department or the other. (I had already begun to teach in the school). We began with the basics but soon he introduced us to Italian classics. Thus through years we studies Il Gattpardo, I Promessi Sposi, Le Sorelle Materassi and finally La Divina Commedia’. We also read with him “Des Camello” of Guareschi. From La Divina Commedia we studied a couple of cantos in depth. And to read any classic in original is certainly a great boon. But we enjoyed reading “Don Camillo” of Guareschi because we came across the spectrum of small town life and the conversations between peppone the communist mayor & Dar Camillo’s complaint to Christ and Christ’s rebuke to Don Camillo were very enjoyable.

For me there was another reason why we often had to meet. He was interested in Indian mythology and Puranas. He also had very many questions regarding the gods and goddesses. Once he put up this question: If The Divine Mother has four aspects - Maheshwari, Mahakali, Mahalakshmi and Mahasaraswati then who are these Dasha Mahavidyas? Or what does dashanamdhari man? Or is there any deeper meaning of the five “M” of the Tantra?”

So I read and tried to explain many of his questions and thus learnt a great deal on all these subjects.

He began to edit and publish an Italian magazine “Domani” which was to be mainly for The Mother’s & Sri Aurobindo’s works translated in Italian. It is still published periodically and has quite a good readership.

The amphitheater in Auroville was constructed under his supervision. He left Pondicherry early in the morning and returned late in the evening. It was ready for the inauguration ceremony on 28 February 1968. He worked like a machine and achieved the impossible.

After Auroville came into existence, The Mother told him once that he should do something to help the villagers who lived in the surrounding villages. So he put up a grocery shop. After a period it seems The Mother said, “I wanted to help the villagers by giving them.” This he took not as Her wish but Command. That was the genesis of Auroshikha. He started the incense stick factory. The Mother gave the name “Udavi”, which in Tamil means “help”. It was not all. He arranged for a crèche so that the female workers’ babies can be looked after, a school for the children of the surrounding villages. He made provision for their two meals, their dress, their cleanliness. There were people to wash the school dresses, press & keep ready. There were others who saw that the youngsters had a proper bath. The workers of the incense factory were given a big glass of milk at a break. These people who were to sit on the floor and roll the sticks were given breaks so that they could relax. The small unit of Auroshikha is a well known name in the world of incense sticks today and there is not a corner of the earth where it has not reached.

So an engineer by profession comes to Sri Aurobindo Ashram, becomes the professor of language + literature, later an entrepreneur. This is the beauty of this place.

Nirod-da


Nirod-da began to teach in our school after Sri Aurobindo’s Mahasamadhi. Till then he was one of the attendants of The Master. His reminiscences in “Twelve Years with Sri Aurobindo” give us a first hand account of that period; his service to The Master; his relation with Him.

After 1950 December he began to teach in higher classes, He had a very serious expression I might say always a frown and somehow he gave us the impression that he resembled a great deal The great French poet Baudelaire. So whenever we didn’t want to mention his name openly we called him Baudelaire. For we were quite scared of him and he was aware of it fully. I remember once he said, ”Now let me go and show them their terror’s face.” To Sisir-da.

He definitely was a person who was affectionate, otherwise how could he take the responsibility of his nieces (Juthi, Bani & Dolly) and nephews (Dibhash, Subhash & Subash)! They lived with their maternal grand mother, (Nirod-da’s mother) and their mothers. But they were his responsibility. He was not only their parent but also their guide and philosopher.

Much have been written about him by those who knew him closely, or the occasion of his centenary. There is not much to say. I may only speak of my contact with him, which as usual was neither very close nor distant.

After Ranjit Sarkar (Namita’s elder brother) left for Europe I was asked to teach Bengali in the Primary Section of our school. Then it was Nalini-Sen da who was in-charge of the Bengali Section. After his demise Nirod-da took up the responsibility. It was then that I began to have some sort of regular communication with him.

In the early sixties and late fifties when I was a student, I studied with him English. He read in our class his manuscript of
”Twelve Years with Sri Aurobindo”. He introduced us to the great essayists of English Literature; one year he taught us French and a couple of years Bengali. He made us study Madhusudan Datta’s “Meghnadvadi”. He explained to us the speciality of blank verse. I believe, we were the only students who studied French, English and Bengali with the same teacher - Nirod-da.

His relation with his students became much relaxed in years. After a decade I believe nobody was as scared as we were of him. He was approachable. After Nolini-da’s passing away he was one of the sadhaks of a very few still alive who spent years in close contact with The Master and The Mother. Thus many visitors from around the world began to approach him with their problems. Spiritual as well as worldly.

This contact I believe had a great influence on him. For Nirod-da that we knew in the fifties of the last century and Nirod-da of the last years of the same century were two very different Nirod-das. He had mellowed down a great deal.

Nolini-da, Amrita-da and Some other Sadhaks as I Knew them

 

I don't know how to begin to speak about my contact with Nolini-da. For it was neither very close nor very distant. There are those of my generation who may be able to say many interesting things regarding their relation with Nolini-da, again others may not. But as I had neither of the two, yet feel once in a while I was in his thoughts.

 

     The very second day of my arrival at Pondicherry I was introduced to three middle aged Sadhaks. One was Biren-da of Press. He always wore dhoti and chadar and he had long hair which fell up to his waist. Near The Ashram gate, Suren Datta, my uncle, another uncle with whom I travelled and I, met Biren-da, Kaku (Suren Datta) introduced us. With a very soft voice and a smile he accepted my pranam. (The Bengalies were taught from their childhood to touch the feet of the elders when met for the first time). We talked; he asking me questions and I answering and then we entered the Ashram premises.

Near Puraniji's room (where there is now an office with computers) we met a short, fair complexioned Sadhak with a very endearing voice. I touched his feet and kaku said, "Amrita-da, this is my niece Jharna , and she has arrived yesterday from Assam." Amrita-da looked at me with affection and said in a Bengali which in intonation was a little different , "khub bhalo". I found it little different than the way we speak , but didn't have the curiosity to find out why it was so. At last we entered The Meditation Hall, went to Nolini-da's door and from there kaku called out," Nolini-da may we come in ?"

A deep voice gave us the permission; seeing us he said," So she has arrived?" while I touched his feet. In those days even a visit to the Ashram required The Mother's permission. It was done through Nolini-da or Amrita-da in general. That was the beginning.

I had actually come with the hope to stay back if The Mother permitted. Why at such a tender age I had decided that, I still haven't found the reason. Was it because there was a great upheaval in the life of the Bengalies, especially due to the partition?" But then, I was too young to understand the impact of it. Or was it the lure of an enchanting life of which I heard from a few who used to stop at our house while coming to visit the Ashram!

 

     After The Darshan of 21 February there was nothing much to do. We just visited different departments, and thus a month had passed. Then a letter came from my father asking us to return.

But I had already felt a great pull towards the life of the students of the school , seeing them so free, alive, full of enthusiasm in everything they did that I decided to ask my uncle to do something . He too might have had the same idea. So he went to Nolini-da with me and spoke to him about my wish . He, after a while said," Come with her on next blessing day to my room". As asked we presented ourselves and he asked us to follow him. We went to The Mother and there he informed Her that I wanted to stay back. The Mother looked at me and asked "Do you want to stay here?" By hearing Her speak to me I was petrified and couldn't answer Her. She asked for the second time still I remained dumb. There She said "are baba!"

I took that as a "No" from Her and my inability to answer Her in English was to me a real failure . I was heart broken; in the evening kaku went to Nolini-da and informed him about my unhappiness. Nolini-da heard and said," The Mother has accepted her".

 

     After that for very many years I just met him in the Playground or in The Ashram or even in the Dining Room. Now and then he would say a few words, he asking and I answering. It went on till I began to arrange and   choreograph dance programmes. After presenting a few programmes whenever I met him afterwards he would enquire whether we were thinking of something new. So when it became clear to me that he took keen interest in these cultural programmes, I began to inform him about all our projects. And he always wanted to know in detail. In the beginning Nandita-di and I would develop together a theme and present it: She, looking after the music side and I, the dance and choreograph aspect. One incident I remember when we staged "A God's Labour" as a dance drama. I went to his room and gave him in full detail what we intended to present. He listened with lots of interest asking me questions. One day Suresh Joshiji came to school and gave me a note saying Nolini-da had sent it. There it was written "don't forget to present The Buddha and The Christ". I showed it to Nandita-di and we felt we were in right path in presenting the poem. It so happened, one day a senior colleague  caught me by surprise for he said he had had been looking for me to suggest that I shouldn't bring in either the Buddha or The Christ. I just showed him the note that I received from Nolini-da

 

          Nolini-da came to see the programme and sat through. While walking out of the theatre he made this remark "She has understood the poem". For this particular programme we had to face a lot of adverse comments. But after a few days when I met Anima-di and she conveyed to me Nolini-da's opinion , I was naturally very happy.

 

     1978 was the Birth Centenary year of The Mother. we decided to present " Mahisasur Mardini" We had to train very many young men to participate either as  Gods or as Asuras. Most of these participants never danced a single step. Yet when they began to work it was a pleasure to see their enthusiasm and sincerity. They were quick learners and in two months time we gave quite a good shape to the dance- drama.

 

     Nandita-di as I mentioned earlier was in charge of music. She did a wonderful job by setting  most difficult sanskrit shlokas into music to be sung and at the same time composed impressive orchestra pieces. The dance-drama was ready to be presented in the month of August. I went to Nolini-da to inform him about the date. Any programme in the Ashram is announced through a poster which often is done with painting and drawing to convey the sense of the programme. It is then put up in The Ashram main building for all to see and know what it is about. Nolini-da wanted to know what would be the name of the dance-drama. It was  to be "Twam Swadha, Twam Swaha". He had written about these words and wanted us to read them and know the true meaning of the words.

 

     By this time he had stopped going out but he  consented to come for the programme for a few minutes. But he sat through. Anima-di who used look after him was worried; this long duration may exhaust him. But after the programme he walked to the car and it seems he was in a meditative mood all through.

 

     He remembered the birthdays of the inmates of the Ashram. Many of us used to go and meet him on our birthdays. One year it became clear to me that he expected us to meet him on this particular day. On one particular birthday I was a little late going to his room. From outside I heard him asking Anima-di" It is Jharna's birthday and she hasn't come yet?"  Just then I entered and said, "Nolini-da, here I am." That was the year his book "Veda Mantra" was published and he had signed one to give me.

 

     On another occasion I was asked to go to his room; entering. I found him seated on his chair; looked up sensing someone in front, "Oh eshe cho!" then he took a picture -post card from the table and gave it to me saying , "eita tomar jonye " Some one had sent this post - card from Malayasia. It was a picture of a few young Malayasien women dancing a folk dance. These and other small incidents made me feel that now and then I was in his thought.

 

     We have heard the older generation call him "Sri Aurobindo's manas putra." And why not! He is certainly one who has followed the guru's footsteps with utmost sincerity and love. A great sadhak, a writer who has given most valuable thoughts regarding Sri Aurobindo  and The Mother's Yoga and much more. His critical work on writers in Bengali, English and French are of great value for those who would like to study those authors. His essays on Rabindra Nath Tagore show his mastery over the poet's work. He took keen interest in anything new and exceptional. When the book "Johnathan Livingstone Seagull" was published, we had a reading session with him. He was inspired by the book, translated relevant parts in Bengali and read them in The Playground for those who didn't know English well. And now I will just mention two comments regarding Nolini-da.

 

     After the merger of Pondicherry to India, Jawaharlal Nehru came to visit and at the Ashram gate he was received by Nolini-da, Amrita-da and other senior sadhaks. Nolini-da accompanied him to the Samadhi and then to The Mother. It seems Nehru commented about Nolini-da " To-day I met someone who looked like the rishis of The Vedic age."

It is also said that in one of Her conversations The Mother it seems commented that he can reach Sachchidananda in a few minutes time. "

In the last couple of years of his life one of his photo's used to be distributed to all who went to wish him "Bonne fete." Looking at his eyes in those photos one can feel how true the observations are.

Amrita-da

     I have already said something about Nolini-da and when one speaks of Nolini-da, one can't stop there without saying something about Amrita-da. They were two of the pillars on which The Mother and Sri Aurobindo founded their Ashram. There were Pavitra-da, Purani-ji, Dyuman bhai and others who had also dedicated themselves to their creation as the pillars. There had also been others who had given themselves completely to the service of The Ashram. In the early days each and every Ashramite in his big or small way contributed to its growth and well being. As the Ashram was the creation of The Mother and Sri Aurobindo, to be able to be a part of that creation for them was and still for many is a great privilege. It is the "Punya" acquired through many lives that one is given a chance to participate in making of something of this magnitude.

     Amrita-da was a Tamil brahmin. After coming in contact with Sri Aurobindo, abandoned all the "samskaras" he had been brought up in and surrendered completely to the Guru he had chosen. He was a man full of peace and happiness (that's the impression one had); had a child like nature. It seems The Mother used to treat him like one. She wouldn't hesitate to scold him as one does to a child if he made a mistake; whereas if Nolini-da made any, She with a very slight gesture make him aware of it. They would go together to The Mother for The Ashram work; Amrita-da, The Manager and Nolini-da, The Mother's secretary. They it seems sat side by side on the floor and worked with The Mother.

     He had the most endearing nature; soft spoken, always ready to help. One could approach him more easily than Nolini-da as Nolini-da was quite a serious person, in appearance at least.

     I liked Amrita-da because he always gave me the impression of someone who would always be there if it was needed.

     After The Mother stopped coming to the first floor we would go to the second floor for our birthdays or on any other occasion if She consented to see us. For that we had to write to Her a note praying for Her permission. I always took my letter to Amrita-da to give it to The Mother.

     Amrita-da's small little gestures were full of affection and concern. For instance while waiting to go to The Mother we would wait in the passage room leading to the second floor staircase. Amrita-da going to The Mother for his work would look at everyone seated, wish "Bonne Fête" and say something like, "See you don't hurt yourself while getting up", and show the edge of the cupboard near which one is seated.

     There would be other occasion when we could not go to The Mother due to her tight schedule or for some other reason then we could send flowers to The Mother through Amrita-da or Nolini-da. If The Mother wished to give quite a bunch of flowers and the vase was small then while giving the flowers to the one who has sent would say "why didn't you send your flowers in a bigger vase, The Mother had so many more to give"? That he had to carry it with all his things for the work didn't matter. Amrita-da was always there for us, we had to but approach him with our difficulties, he would listen and then quietly say "alright, I will let The Mother know of your problem."

 

Millie-di

Millie-di was in charge of The Green room of our theatre. Even when we didn't have a theatre and every programme was presented on The Playground, she looked after the costumes and make up. We met only whenever we presented a dance programme. Millie-di did not only supplied the costumes but also decided what to give whom. It was only in all these occasions I came in contact with her and one could see that she was a born artist. Her conception of dresses and accessories often didn't fit in to our conception, but when looked upon them very dispassionately one could see the novelty in her suggestions.

She was looking for someone to help her in her theatre work; for the first generation helpers were not all that young anymore; I was asked and as it is to do with dance and dramas I opted for it. It is after that I came to know about her ideas a little better.

The most striking aspect of her working method was that though we had more than six / seven huge cupboards full of costumes, she knew what was where. She remembered the number, the colour, the year it was used in First December programme especially. She even often mentioned the character that had put it on.

In earlier days, quite a few families who joined The Ashram offered their best dresses and saries to The Mother for whatever way they could be put into use. Thus we could see richly worked saries, dresses, lehengas in her collection. She would use them once as they were, if they suited her idea; then after it a little for a second use and slight repeated alterations she made it serviceable for quite a few more times.

In the early period of our cultural programmes Millie-di tried to use all that was at her disposal and spend as little as possible for dresses. One year she with the help of a crafts' woman got accessories and jewellary made out of coloured glass beads. As far as I remember they were created for the dramatic versions of "Vikramorvashi" of Sri Aurobindo. Practically everyone of the cast: The King, the apsaras, the other characters wore those creations. They looked so grand that one just looked at them with great admiration; and if it had happened in present era, one could have exclaimed "awesome!".

These accessories had been used for years till they broke to pieces. Once in a dance - drama I was to dance as "Goddess Kali". She took a red  sari with a zari border and asked me to get a yellow blouse. On the day of the programme she just made me wear the sari as we generally do, and then altered the length of the pleats in such a way that it resembled a stitched dress. For crown she chose a necklace. Now one could very well ask why didn't she give ma a stitched dress or a regular crown? Well, I believe that would have been too traditional!

This incident will show how creative she was. A dancer from South America "Rolf" began to visit The Ashram in late sixties. On the occasion of a "New Year" he presented recitation from Savitri with some Ashram artists. The dresses were stitched according to his model. After that particular programme she didn't discard those dresses for being quite strange to our eyes. She stored them as was her habit.

May be after 15 / 20 years there was a scene from " Savitri". She took out those dresses, chose some, got long black, blue and silver ribbons stitched the whole length coming around the neck. The costumes took a new look and we used them quite a few times after wards.

She had a very able group of ladies who used to help her in her theater work. For dressing and hairdos there were Suman ben, Shakuntala bhavi, Krishna ben, later on Bharati and others joined the group. For make up in the beginning we had Minni-di, Sutapa and even Chimanbhai (The photographer); later on Gauri Pinto and Jhumur came in to help with make up and then there is Sharat-bhai who still continues with Sharda and her group.

For distributing the dinner there were mainly Usha ben and Jayshree ben, later on Varuni and others came to help. Jayshree ben would collect lemons from The D.R. Squeeze them the whole afternoon, make juice to give a fresh lemonade to the participants which sometimes reached 200 mark. The dedication of these ladies only made one realise how they gave themselves completely to The Mother's work.

There were days when the cultural programme finished around 12 or 12.30 A.M. After that there would be dinner, a small discussion, clearing up everything after dinner, putting back things in there respective places, and we would return to our rooms sometimes at 1.30 or 2 A.M. But as all of us worked in some department or the other, next morning everyone would try to be in there respective department on time. And that was the beauty that we witnessed in all those old Sadhiikas.

Sunayna has written extensively about her in her book. So Millie-di's work upstairs in The Ashram, her department of embroidery, batik, fabric painting must have been spoken in detail. It is my contact with her as an artist and as an helper which I feel can be shared with others.

 

Ravindra ji

Ravindraji was a sadhak who evoked awe in some, anger in other and even dislike in a few. When I became an Ashramite as a student in 1953, Ravindraji was one of the most important sadhaks in charge of quite a few departments.

A tall and well built individual, fair complexioned, who was never in a hurry. He was in charge of deciding the department in which one was to work when accepted by The Mother as a sadhak; distribution of meals in The Dining Room. Again distribution of butter on weekly basis (which stopped); tea and sugar distribution on the first of every month for those who wanted to take their quota at home. But according to me the most important of all his duties had been his personal service in making butter and fruit juice for The Mother.

He was also in charge of the Hindi section of our school and later had to look after Laundry and Bakery.

He lived in The Ashram premises by the side of the Prosperity office. The Mother sanctioned two rooms to be constructed above his and Prithwi Singh da's room. When he shifted on the first floor his old room was converted into a cold storage. Fruits were stored there; but after The Mother 's passing it has been altered into a storage for The Mother's and Sri Aurobindo's manuscripts and also other important papers of The Ashram archive.

The fruit room was and still is above the Prosperity office. On the western side of The Ashram building near Ravindraji old room there is a window. The fruits arriving from different Ashram gardens were taken inside through that window and then the trays were lifted to the first floor which was quite a heavy work. So Ravindraji suggested that there should be an automatic lift for those trays, hearing which The Mother it seems said "Don't my boys and girls do physical exercises? They should be able to pull up the trays in a lift worked manually." The lift was installed and it is still there near the Prosperity office.

There is a cold room adjacent to the fruit room. After receiving the fruits from the gardens, Ravindraji  took hours to select fruits for The Mother and store them in that small cold storage. The rest was distributed next morning to the Ashramites. Even today the distribution continues.

when I joined the school I often heard a group of youngsters calling Ravindra-ji "Vandi-da" The genesis of this special name is quite interesting and amusing. There were many sadhaks even in those early days, who had such duty that they couldn't go to The Dinning Hall in time fixed for meals. So their meals were sent home in tiffin carriers. I  have seen the process at that period. Damodar bhai, a sadhak pulling a hand cart with tiffin carriers and Ravindraji walking by the side. But earlier it was Ravindra-ji who would fill up the tiffin carriers, put them in the mentioned hand cart, pull it from house to house and distribute the carriers. Thus he was called by some "Vandi - da"; vandi in Tamil meaning a vehicle.

As I have already mentioned he was also in charge of distribution of meals in The Dining hall. Thus on Darshan days we the younger generation were permitted to help in The D.R. Work. Some washed or wiped the dishes, spoons etc. others distributed food at the counter. We were seven, ten girls working at the counter. There were Urmilaben, Kanta, Sumedha, Parul, Usha-ben (Urmilaben's sister), myself and some others.

On Darshan days The Mother distributed Messages, and all Ashramites and visitors went to the first floor to have the Message from The Mother's Hand. The chair on which She sat is still there near the door at the right side of the chair now a sadhak sits to distribute The Darshan Messages.

At about 10.30 A.M. Ravindraji would come from his work in the fruit room and join the queue and we all who worked in The Dining Hall counter would follow him to go to The Mother. As long as there was the distribution of The Message by The Mother, we always followed Ravindraji.

Anuben was in charge of our dancing section. Initially she taught all the students herself. Later she began to hand over some classes of younger girls to the senior students. After I had learnt for few years she asked me to teach a small batch of girls aged 8/9 years. Thus began my life as a dance teacher. We have only one Dance hall and the students number increased gradually. Then we were obliged to conduct classes even in the evening after the groups. The Dance Hall was kept locked and who ever had a class in the evening had to go to Anuben's room, collect the keys of the Dancing Hall, and after the class leave the keys in their proper place in Anuben's room which was adjacent to Ravindaji's. While going to get the key or while returning them I met him some time coming out of the cold storage or seated on his small balcony doing something. Once in a while I would step or he would stop me to ask about the students, classes etc.

I had washed The Mother's lunch tray for a couple of years under his direction. It was then that I came to know him a little better and began to talk to him more freely.

By late seventies I had stopped conducting regular dance classes and also work in The Dining Hall on special occasions due to health reason. Thus my contact with him became quite irregular. I would like to share something he said regarding "The wish of a soul".

Satu-da an old sadhak (age wise, as well as his life in the Ashram) had practically adopted me as a grand-child. He walked with a stick and often found it difficult to cross the roads. So often I would accompany him and help him to cross the roads. When he became infirm and could no more go out of his room, I went to see him in his room once or twice a month.

Now we have two establishments "Care and Desirée Home" to look after the elders of the Ashram, but earlier days when a sadhak or sadhika lived alone he/she was left to the care of two servants. One would come in the morning and one at the night. Naturally Satu-da was also looked after two servants.

It so happened I was unable to visit him for more than a month or so, when I went to him next, the servant on duty informed me that Satu-da was suffering from bed soars and ant bite. I went near and found that his back was all raw with blisters and his toes were nibbled away by the ants. I was shocked and extremely disturbed. After leaving his room I went to Sisir-da and when he heard what I had to say he advised me to inform Nolini-da. I went to Nolini-da's and after hearing me he commented," But so and so was supposed to look after Satu-da and he never spoke anything of the type! Alright you go, I will let The Mother know."  (Three weeks after this date Satu-da passed away peacefully.)

Coming out of The Meditation Hall I saw Ravindraji crossing The Ashram courtyard. We met near Pujalal ji's room and seeing me he asked "Kee hocchhe? (what's the matter!)

In that state of distress I began to narrate him but he stopped me short and asked me to follow him. We went to his balcony. After sitting on the stone bench he asked me to narrate to him in detail. As conclusion I uttered "Ma onke niye nicchen na keno? (why doesn't The Mother take him to Her!)"

He stopped me with a firm gesture "don't say this!:" and then narrated something which I believe is interesting for all of us.

"There was a sadhak in the early fifties, I believe his name was "Krishna ayya" who was suffering from cancer. In those days there was hardly any medicine for the disease not even to reduce the pain. Krishna ayya would scream through out some nights. He lived where there is the Atelier office, that is just on the other side of the road to Ravindraji's. One night it must have been very painful and Ravindraji heard him scream whole night. When Ravindraji went to The Mother for his daily pranam and report to The Mother he informed Her what he heard at night and said "why don't you take him to You Mother!"

Mother stopped him short with a stern look and said, "How do you know his soul doesn't want it?"

Narrating this Ravindraji looked at me, and said, "do you understand!"

Nripen-da the doctor


However much we may be grateful to Nripen-da it will never be enough for all that he did for our generation.

It was he who had arranged for all young boys and girls to have two eggs per day. It was he who began to have greens cooked in the dispensary calling it “Vitamine” so that the children may have some greens daily for health reasons. It was he who with determination and persistence started a “Nursing Home” so that he could use his time better instead of going from house to house seeing patients. I am sure many more similar deeds are remembered by my generation.

Nripen-da was accessible to every child, you could just go there in the dispensary and complain about your discomfort and he would surely find some medicine for you. His priority had always been the young boys and girls. His day and night were for The Mother’s service. If for instance some Ashramite got ill at night & he was called, he took his cycle (in early days) and paddled to the patient’s house and if it was deemed necessary to administer a particular medicine, he paddled back to the dispensary, took the medicine and after seeing the patient having that medicine left. (For there were many who needed such help as then no more than two or three or a family lived in a single house.)

I believe The Mother had suggested a few very simple remedies for some ailments, and he gave them to one and all. For instance if someone went with some stomach problem he prescribed a particular mixture of two powders which was called “Lethini”, for soar throat it was a mixture of glycerin + lemon juice. (It was really very tasty).

At present if there is a case of say mumps or chicken pox we in a short period have a few others having the same. But Nripen-da was extremely strict regarding these contagious diseases. The moment one such case came into light he quarantined the whole house, it could be different inmates living in the same building, or it could be a family. The next step was to segregate the patient in a separate house. Only after three weeks in the case of chicken pox and a week or more for a case of mumps was everyone allowed to mix with the others of the Ashram. One may ask what about the meals? The Dispensary arranged to collect the carriers and send it to the quarantined house. Just an example may show how strict Nripen-da was.

Sitangshu or Himangshu a cousin of Namita had chicken pox. The patient with Namita’s mother was shifted to a rented house so that the other members were not affected. But those members who remained at home had not permission to come either to the Ashram, school or Dining Hall. They were not even allowed to use the streets around the Ashram to go to other places. In the evening if they wanted to go the beach they had to remain on the southern side of the old pics. It so happened one evening after the March Past , a couple of friends went to the beach and by chance met Hema, Sitangshu’s sister. Naturally we talked for a few minutes. Next morning I was informed that Nripen-da went to the Dispensary he looked at us above his spectacles and asked “Did you talk to Hema last evening on the sea beach?”

“Yes”. I replied.

Don’t you know you are not to make any contact with a quarantined family? Don’t do it again. Go to school.”

Sometime back I was narrating this incident to one of our older sadhikas who has lived here from the early forties. She then narrated something which shows how strict The Mother was regarding contagious diseases.

It seems in a house located at a very short distance from the balcony on the north side of the Ashram, an Ashramite had chicken pox. Though the patient was shifted to a separate lodging the other inmates were quarantined as per rule. One morning The Mother from the balcony saw someone standing in front of the gate of that particular house. She was extremely displeased. When Nripen-da went to The Mother for pranam The Mother it seems asked something like how can anybody come out and stand so near to this large gathering under the balcony?

In time it became difficult to get houses on rent for this particular purpose. It is then he started a smaller place calling it “Cure House”.

He had the habit of visiting our house every afternoon to meet Surendra uncle and pass sometime in a relaxed mood before he began his afternoon duties in the dispensary. His personal life was strictly that of a sadhak. He never took even a glass of water in our house, even on occasions like birthdays. Three meals from the Dining Hall were all his food, though he encouraged the younger generation to eat in plenty.

When the kitchen above the dispensary began on his initiative, the ladies working there would send him vitamine for his lunch.

Always in dhoti and half shirt or kurta in white, we found him seated behind his desk. A physician who made you feel that one was in safe hands.

Our School and my teachers and professors


When I was admitted to The Ashram School, it was called “Sri Aurobindo International University Center.” At that time there was a galaxy of professors & teachers. There are still some who continue to teach. There were then Sisir-da, Nirod-da, Tehmiben, Jugal-da Joshi bhai, Sunil-da, Sanat-da, Purani-ji, Bharati-di, Nolini Sen-da, and quite a few others. All were the best in their respective fields.

Then there were the younger generation teachers and professors who were educated in The Ashram School - Manoj-da, Amita-di, Chitra-di, Arati-di, Aniruddha-da (Babu-da). Dhanavantiben, Sumitra-di, Suprabha-di, Arunbhai and others. They were very good teachers as most of them were brilliant students. Thus we were extremely fortunate to be taught by these sadhaks. But I often wonder how much we profited by being their students.

For example English Professor Ravindra Khanna-ji was a scholar of Persian literature & language. With eyes closed he recited verses from Persian poetry in original and then in the same breath gave the English translation. He didn’t need to think, he just knew, such was his authority on both the languages. He was also a connoisseur of Indian Classical music. One could hear music wafting out of his room sometimes Carnatic sometimes Hindustani. In the later part his life he was unable to come out of his room; music was his constant companion.

His brother Jagadish Khannaji was not as scholarly as his brother Ravindra Khanna-ji, but he had a very good grasp on Urdu literature. Like his brother he recited Urdu Couplets closing his eyes and translated it at the same time in English for us, so that we may be able to appreciate.

Sanat-da was an I.C.S. officer who was posted in Pondicherry as the High Commissioner of India to French India. He met The Mother, resigned and became an inmate of The Ashram with is wife Chandana-di. He was a gentleman; never spoke in a loud voice, never chided his students even if they were noisy in the class. I am speaking of the early fifties when he took classes for younger students. Later he taught only the senior students.

He was a topper. He once while talking of his life as a student mentioned “Father wanted us to be first in the class, we brothers tried to please father remaining always at the top of the list.”

He taught History and one could see the knowledge he had of the subject. We had been his students for four years and if we got interested in the subject it is because of him. His way of presentation was unique.

In Higher Course a few of us took history as an optional subject. Now what is called a project, we did a similar thing twice or thrice a year. He gave us a subject and a list of books to study & consult and then write an essay or whatever you may call it. This was mainly to find out whether we understood the topic we were given to study and discuss in the class. This work had to be done in our free time. If someone had some questions they could be asked at the end of the regular classes and if need be he recommended some more books. He encouraged his students to think for themselves.

I had never been a student of either Jugal-da nor of Sunil-da, thus I am unable to say anything on personal level. But Sunil-da through his sublime New Year music and that of The epic poem Savitri. Jugal-da through his writing gave us a glimpse of what they were and how profound their knowledge was.

Joshi-bhai is of a different category. His erudition is of a different kind, he could and still can make any branch of Chemistry accessible to anyone. For us it was a great fortune to be in his class. He had a friendly disposition towards his students and we could ask him any stupid question regarding the subject which we often did as our knowledge and commitment were pretty poor, but he had always been most patient and answered our questions again and again simplifying it so that we could grasp something of what we were studying. His effort to teach us something had endeared him to us and we behaved as friends when we met once in a while, even today.

I could write about other teachers and professors as well but as I had mentioned earlier, some had left an indelible impression in me.

Of the younger generation of teachers Manoj-da taught us one year “General Science”. His presentation was always very interesting and unique. While explaining a certain topic he referred to a scientist or another and narrated some interesting anecdotes. As far as I remember one day he said something like this that, as life has emerged from water, every living creature is attracted to it, more so man. This was a statement which has remained with me till today.

Amita-di introduced us to Antoine de Saint Exupery, Andre’ Gide, Chateaubriaud, Baudelaire, Verlaine and others. Anyone learning French gets to know Victor Hugo very early. Half seated, a foot touching the ground, a book in hand in front of us was Amita-di reading from Andre’ Gide “Nathanae’l jet e parlerai des attentes. J’ai vu la plaine, pendant l’e’te’ attendre, attendre un peu de pluie.....Puit il plut.

Or reciting from Baudeloire :
‘ Au-dusus des etango, an-dusus des vallies Des montagnes, de bois, des nuages, des mers.... ‘ or ‘Alors je reverai des horizons bleuatres Des jardins. Des jets d’eau plurant dans les albatres.’ And again Saint Exupery’s ‘Vol de Nuit’ where Fabien is above the stormy clouds, ‘Trop beau pensait Fabien, il ersait farmi les etoiles accumuleos avec la densite’ d’un tre’sor....Pareil a’ as voleurs ds villes fabuleuses.....infiniment riches, mais condamnes.’

We listened to her spellbound. She as we all know was the chosen person by The Mother to enact the character of ‘Savitri’ in the epic poem. She is a woman of many qualities. She painted, acted, wrote in the school journal of which she was the editor, played guitar. A teacher who had many new ideas and tried to give us some of the things she had learnt from The Mother directly. Another professor who taught us how to appreciate literature was Nalini Sarkar da. He taught us Bengali in Higher Course. He didn’t teach us, he shared with us the fine points of a literary work in Bengali. He just read and we listened. With inflection of the voice he created a word of different emotions.

Kireet bhai joined the school may be in late fifties. He was an IAS Officer; came to visit the Ashram, later resigned from his job to join the Ashram in the Higher Course he taught “The Life Divine”. He took up a chapter gave in brief the arguments and then elaborated with example & references. His method was such that the students automatically paid attention to what he spoke about.

There were others too who have enriched our lives.

Sisir-da


Sisir-da was the Joint Director of our school, Pavitra-da being the director. After he completed his studies Sisir-da joined Shantiniketan as professor. From there he came to Pondicherry. He never mentioned how he came here. All we knew is that he came & stayed for good.

He was a historian; wrote articles but three books written by him are often consulted by many of our teachers of history. They are “The Dawn Eternal, Vision of India & The Resurgent India.” These books deal with different aspects of Indian History & culture.

A most simple gentleman, I have never seen him in other than his white dhoti, chadar and a fatua. Only in winter he used a Endy Chadar if it was cold enough. He lived in the school premises in the last room of the East Block, which is now used as a piano-room and Gujarati Library.

He had very few friends, Nirod-da definitely was the closest. They used to have their breakfast together in Nirod-da’s room in The Ashram building. He would be in Nirod-da’s room at the same hour daily. Nirod-da once mentioned that in the preparation of the breakfast Sisir-da had a specific chore and he did it with great concentration. He never even spoke till what he was doing was completed. It was only then he began to exchange some information or just converse.

I took an instant liking for him because he resembled very much tmy mother’s Guru. If you made these two gentlemen stand side by side you would not only take them as brothers, maybe even think of them as twins. In the Playground I saw him for the first time and spoke of the resemblance to my aunt.

In the month of March 1953 - I was accepted by The Mother as a member; that was the way in early years. One never came only to study, one became a member of The Ashram family.

After being accepted by The Mother I went to the school with my uncle to meet Sisir-da. He asked me a few questions and decided which class I should join. He then sent the particulars to The Mother for her approval. Very next day I was asked to join the classes & thus my student life began.

First couple of years Sisir-da was nowhere in my life, we who were junior students met him in the school courtyard or moving from one class to the other. Slowly there began an exchange of a few words now and then and slowly it grew into regular communication. There came a time when I went through a very difficult phase as I was having a strained relation with my aunt, with whom I lived. It is then, that I began to confide in him and strangely enough I felt quite relived after that. I started to take for granted his help.

I began to work in the school library in the mid fifties. Then other helpers were Nandita-di, Dolly, Suniti-di (Pantula). Arati-di was and is the librarian. Later Bithi, Tossy’s elder sister joined. During the holidays while working we sometimes sat with books in hand and resorted to chit chat for a while or pull each other’s leg. Dolly was a sport. She was the most lively person; she had always little anecdote to narrate. It was a homogeneous group and to work in the school library was great fun.

Suddenly we had a brilliant idea. We will ask Sisir-da to treat us one afternoon. He was pleased and at the same time did not know what to do. So we took money, went to Cottage Restaurant got some Samosa and chops and had a high tea on the school lawn. (That was the beginning of afternoon tea in the school library during the holidays.)

While he was writing “The Resurgent India” he developed a very bad skin disorder all over his body. It was not only painful but embarrassing too as people asked what treatment he was following etc, etc. The senior sadhaks didn’t visit all the doctors present in the Ashram; they stuck to the one to whom they went regularly. Naturally lots of advice was given by sadhaks and sadhikas.

One evening when I went to help him with his evening meal, I found him unhappy but dared not ask him why. After a while he himself said that The Mother was not happy with the way he was working on the book. According to Her he has become too engrossed in writing and has left aside his sadhana. That is why She was unable to help him to get cured.

As I have already mentioned, he was the Joint-Director of the school. So he had quite a few regular duties to perform. In the beginning the school did not begin with The Mother’s music, Her reading with Sunil-da’s music. The bell rang we recited “Make of us …” and the class began. After a few minutes we saw Sisir-da going through the premises; first the ground floor, then the first floor, walking from end to end to see that the teachers were present in their respective classes and the buildings were clean. This duty he fulfilled very conscientiously till he was unable to make the round due to age & also due to illness in the latter period of his life.

From the inception of the school it was a rule to send the list of the absent students to The Mother every afternoon. From the very first period a worker with a notebook went round the school, from class room to class room, and wherever there was an absentee, it was noted down. In the afternoon Sisir-da would copy down the names in a bound note-book for this specific work, send it to Pavitra-da who in turn took it to The Mother for Her perusal. This rule continued for quite a long time.

Another duty that he had to execute was the teachers meetings ’minutes' to be written & sent to The Mother. On the first of every month we have no school. Can any teacher of this generation or present student body know the reason? I am afraid not. It is because on the first of every month The teachers’ meeting was held. They met, discussed their ideas and problems which were put down by Sisir-da and then sent to The Mother for Her comments and advice.

Like all the other Senior Sadhaks he too believed that every child should be honest and straight-forward. He was unable to scold any child. If a teacher took a student to him for some serious mischief he became very disturbed and uttered “go, don’t do it again.”

From these sadhaks we could have learnt a great deal but as all over the world youth has its false pride and sense of wisdom. We were given a great chance to learn a lot from sadhaks like Sisir-da but have we profited!

Some Amusing Tit Bits


When we were in Knowledge second year we had as our French Professor M. Counouma. He became the Managing Trustee after Amrita-da’s demise. We must have been the last group of students when he taught French. He was from Kerala but we heard that before he joined the Ashram he had been The Home Minister of the Pondicherry Government, while Pondicherry was under The French rule. As students and that too of Knowledge there were occasions when we spoke of different issues.

Once while talking about the processions of gods and goddesses during the night time he narrated this.

As we all know that during the “Masi Maham” festival the deities of all the temples of Pondicherry, those of the nearby villages and towns come to Pondicherry for a ritual bath at the sea. At present it has taken the shape of big fair. Of all these deities the one from Mylam is supposed to be the most important. Mylam’s most important temple is dedicated to the god “Kartikeya” who is considered as an important god. So this temple had devadasis in the earlier days. They along with the procession traveled on foot. These processions always move at night. Mylam is some 33 km from Pondicherry, the procession then moved by night and rested during the day. The devadasis danced all the way from Mylam to Pondicherry. The wore gold jewelry and to guard the procession M. Counouma had to send a contingent of Police personnel

One may have seen hail, flower or even stone raining. We as children saw coins raining. As students we passed our holidays preparing the celebrations of 1st and 2nd December. For these preparations from morning till late night we did something or the other. In that particular year I don’t remember what we were constructing, probably boats for 2nd December. Many of us boys and girls gathered in The Playground and began to work. It used to continue till lunch hour i.e. 11.30 am.

One morning while we were working and making lots of noise some singing, some laughing others chanting., there entered Puraniji and Vishnubhai;- behind them a big group of visitors.

Puraniji stood by the map and began to speak in Gujarati, the visitors sat in front of him, Puraniji spoke for possibly half an hour. When he finished his address and wished them a good journey and happy life, there began a rain of coins towards him. He walked out and behind him the visitors. Vishnubhai stood there not knowing how to react. Generally every Ashramite carried  a cloth bag but Vishnubhai did not. We who stood with open mouth at this phenomenon went to help him collect the coins. He used to wear a dhoti; took out one end, put in all the coins which made quite a a big bundle and smiling walked out of the Playground.

On another occasion it was at the Samadhi. In the evening at about 8.30 pm a group of visitors entered the Ashram; it was quite a big group. They did The Pradakshina and after offering their pranam all threw coins on The Samadhi. It was a rain of coins, the sound when some fell on the marble was like that of hailstones. After they left two ladies went to the Samadhi and with the help of others around the Samadhi picked up the coins and put them in the hundi.

These events somehow left a memory in me. Some happened long back but they are unforgettable.

The Ashramites of my generation, my elders and those who have come before me may have heard and witnessed the events and issues I have spoken of. They can very well have a different version, and they are equally true as we all have our own way of looking at issues and events.

Some of our elders


I wish to speak about some of the elders with whom I did not have any close contact yet a gesture here, an event there have left a lasting impression of them in me. To name only a few Khirod-da, Bula-da, Manoranjan-da, Udar-da, Umirchand-da, Parichand-da, Jyotin-da and a  few others.

When The Mother initiated Thursday & Sunday meditation in the Playground after Physical activities - some of these Sadhaks it seems let the Mother know that most of the days they were busy even at that hour with the department work. Thus they were unable to come to The Meditation in the Playground. Hearing which the Mother it seems assured them saying something like “That is your meditation; you don’t need to come to the Playground.”

Bula-da who lived in the Ashram premises occupied the room which is now used as work and store room for blessing packets. He was in-charge of electric and water departments. He was a very straightforward and strict person. To run the department most economically was his constant effort. In the early period the Ashram houses had 40 watts bulbs everywhere. To read or study, that light was not sufficient. One sadhika went to the department and stated that she was unable to read in that dim light. Bula-da heard her but didn’t reply. After a few days he asked her to come to the department when he would be present. She went as instructed, he handed her a table lamp and explained that, this lamp was for her studies only. She should never light two lights at the same time. She followed his instruction to the letter for she lived with me for many years and I have never found the light on the wall on when she was reading under the table lamp.

One evening Gangaram-da and myself were standing near Bula-da’s room and having small talk. In front, Bishwabani-di was distributing incense sticks to offer at the Samadhi. There was a long queue and near the Samadhi it was filled with smoke and fragrance. Gangaram-da looked at the gathering with a bemused smile and then said something very interesting.

After Sri Aurobindo left his physical body and after he was laid to rest in the Samadhi, The Mother instructed that all through the day and night one incense stick must burn at The Samadhi. The day’s responsibility was on Haradhan-da. (The Mother seeing him for the first time said that he was the priest of a temple where she was the goddess in the past). He did his karmayoga with heart and soul. But it was the night hours which had to be arranged. The Mother assigned this duty to some young Ashramites. Gangaram-da was on of them. In general an incense stick burns for thirty or forty minutes. That’s why someone had to keep a vigil so that when one was getting extinguished, another stick was to be lighted. For a period these young Ashramites did their duty. Bula-da who lived in the Ashram premises as already mentioned approached one of the youngsters and suggested he could very well do what they were doing, as he lived in the building. The suggestion was sent to The Mother and The Mother consented to the arrangement. From that day Bula-da lighted an incense stick at The Samadhi every 30/40 minutes interval every night.

Khirod-da was a different personality. A short bearded man, didn’t bother what he ate, how he dressed. Whatever he received from the Ashram was accepted by him with gratitude. All that mattered for him was to serve The Mother, lead the life of an Ashramite. Starting the day with the Balcony Darshan, going to the Dining Hall for breakfast, hurrying to the department to assign different duties to the Ashram inmates for the day. Then if necessary visit the places where the work was getting done. Khirod-da was in charge of our “Building Maintenance” department, his hands were always full with repair work as most of the Ashramites lived in rented houses. It was also one way of the Mother to help the local people financially. Often the houses were old but if they were taken by the Ashram then the owner was sure to have his house properly maintained. Because The Mother’s instruction was, all the houses including those rented should be properly looked after.

Here is an incident which shows his relation with The Mother. Once some materials were getting stolen on and off. One Ashramite who worked with him had the privilege to go for pranam to The Mother regularly. He went to Her and informed Her that it was Khirod-da who was behind it. After the Ashramite left the Mother’s room, one of those who were always around Her it seems exclaimed - “Khirod? Mother do you believe Khirod will do such thing?” The Mother it seems replied “Khirod is a true sadhak,  knows what I think of him”.

It is the same Khirod-da once after waiting to go to The Mother saw that it was getting late for the Mother’s lunch. He quietly walked out. Someone later asked him why he had gone away - Khirod-da’s reply was “It was getting late for the Mother for her lunch. I didn’t want Her to be for late for me.”

How shall I write about an incident which may throw some light on how the Mother taught us to accept something in a positive light even when it seems quite negative in appearance.

In the early sixties of the last century one November it rained for three weeks or so without stop. We were then living in an old rented house. After a few days the walls developed wet patches nearly in all the rooms. One afternoon returning home I found a thin stream of water running from one corner of my room. The terrace was leaking. I went out to Khirod-da to inform him. Next day in heavy rain he walked all the way to our house to see what the matter was. After examining he said, “We can’t do anything permanent but something will be done so that you can live in safety .”

From inside the workers tried to stop the leakage, but it did not hold. I went for the second time. He then informed the Mother about the condition of the house & especially my room. Hearing which it seems She said, “Tell her it is The Divine Grace coming down.”

A sadhak who never bothered what he ate thrice a day for all his life as an Ashramite became conscious of his diet in his last years. It was not that he wanted to live longer, he was already in his early nineties. It was because he didn’t want to depend on anyone as every Ashramite was serving The Mother which has been the utmost priority in his own life.

The year 1968 - The Mother’s dream town Auroville’s foundation was to take place on 28th of February. Her idea was that all the countries of the world should participate in this historical event by sending delegates and a fistful of soil. Therefore she sent a few Ashramites to Delhi to contact embassies. Many sent delegates and some only sent soil.

All these delegates had to be accommodated by The Ashram. Their boarding and lodging were naturally the responsibilities of The Ashram. Corner House had begun to function only a short time ago. The Mother decided that the delegates would have their meals at Corner House. The delegates being from different countries had also different types of cuisine. They should feel happy with the meals served to them.

At the inception of Corner House Chandubhai and Joshibhai were at the helm. So a couple of days before the great day we saw Manoranjan-da discussing something with Chandubhai and Joshibhai in Corner House. As Manoranjan-da was involved in many Ashram activities we didn’t give much importance to this meeting, thinking it might be something regular. But one fine morning we found Manoranjan-da sitting on a chair near the Corner House Kitchen and instructing the ladies who cooked there regularly.

It is then we understood that he was to guide and supervise the meals during the stay of the delegates. With his instruction every meal had something special - a dish from a country which has sent delegates. We relished the dishes and from far observed all that was going on near the kitchen.

One morning after school at 11.30 am when I entered the Corner House Joshibhai called me, “I am waiting for you. Do you know how to cut big fish? Being a Bengali I should have known how to cut fish. That is always the assumption, but unfortunately I didn’t; hearing which Joshi-bhai replied “Doesn’t matter, come Manoranjan-da will instruct you.”

That was the only time I had spoken to Manoranjan-da. But he spoke and instructed me in such a way as if we have done it before. He instructed me at every step; how to cut big pieces, how to make filet, how to leave the bones and take out pieces. It was amusing as well as instructive. Though I knew I shall never cut in so many different ways a fish.

After the celebration was over we had heard discussion by the ladies in Corner House who helped him in that period. It seems he came early in the morning to instruct for the breakfast, give them the menu of the day; sit through out the day helping to prepare different dishes but never took a morsel. He just drank a couple of cups of tea and drank water.

In the evening, he returned home, after a shower went to The Ashram to inform The Mother about the day’s arrangements; then be back at home to have his meal.

Manoranjan-da was not only a workaholic but also a dedicated worker, who was always ready to help, wherever it was necessary.

Another very important inmate of The Ashram was Udar-da. I am unable to say much about him as I had no personal contact with him, all I can say is that whatever new venture began in The Ashram he was there to help. The Harpagon work-shop in the fifties was just like any other department. But slowly with labour and care, with the help of Panu-da he created a department having smelting section, wood-work section, stainless steel dept. and many more branches.

His daughter Gauri has published a book in which we can see how intimately he was connected with each and every important event that took place in The Ashram.

Here I just want to speak about one incident which has remained with me for more than four decades.

After the Mother left her physical body on 17th November the preparation for Her Samadhi began. As we all know the Samadhi which has two chambers - The lower and the upper. In the lower chamber Sri Aurobindo’s mortal remains were laid to rest. Till date the upper chamber was filled with sand. The Samadhi was opened and the sand was removed; the chamber was cleaned.

On 20th November, The Mother’s physical remains in a sandalwood casket was lowered in the upper chamber.

Till date the walls of The Samadhi were of bricks and cement painted with a particular blue as instructed by the Mother. After the Samadhi was closed, the usual floral decoration began.

One day we found Udar-da sitting on a low stool and working on the walls. He had a chisel and a hammer which may have been of a medium size. He was removing chips of cements from the wall. His action was so measured and careful that one had the feeling as if he was taking all the precautions not to disturb The Mother and Sri Aurobindo in their rest.

He worked for days, may be months. The walls were to be covered with marble pieces. He examined every piece before putting it on The Samadhi wall. He supervised the whole operation from beginning till the last piece was fixed. It was an act of love and dedication that only a child of The Mother is capable of.

Jatin-da of Blanchisserie and Bakery was a well-built figure who went pretty regularly for March Past and Marching in The Playground. He had full faith on all those who worked with him. There were Bhavaniprasad-ji, Madan-da, my uncle Suren Datta in the Bakery; Mohanbhai, Bina and some others in the Blanchisserie (Laundry). One of them was Parbati-da who washed a particular set of The Mother’s laundry.

Jatin-da never intervened in anyone’s duty as he believed that he was given the responsibility only to oversee that the work is done in a most perfect manner. He had the conviction that all those who worked with him knew their responsibility and certainly tried their best. If anything went wrong he would be there to supervise till he was satisfied with the effort to mend it. A small ensemble may show his attitude. Kaku suffered on and often from gastric pain. His duty was to mix the yeast in the evening. If he was unable to go to the Bakery Jatin-da himself would mix it instead of asking someone else to do it.

During the Hindi language agitation in the South the anger of the local people fell on The Ashram and there was much damage to The Ashram Property. For safety’s sake the inmates of The Ashram were advised to stay in and around The Ashram main building. For a few days all those who lived a little farther away were asked not to go home. The main building, The school, The Playground became our shelter. Two rooms adjacent to Jatin-da’s were vacant at that period, so he asked us to make use of them. The first morning I woke up listening to a recitation of the shlokas from the Bhagvat Gita. For three days I heard Jatin-da reciting The Gita early in the morning. It was a great waking up call.

Pramila-di of Jhunjhun boarding was related to him. When Pramila-di was given the responsibility of the boarding, Jatin-da began to visit the children in the evening and talk to them, narrate stories. For the boarders it was a treat for like all senior sadhaks he was erudite and a good story-teller. By and by he also began to dine with them as his diet got restricted due to some ailment.

One evening after the dinner he sat on his usual armchair, began a story but it did not end. Amongst the children he went to his eternal sleep. When The Mother was informed about his death, it seems she answered, “I know; his soul has gone to “Surya Loka”.

Umirchand-da was a very simple man; one could approach him if one found out that below the stern appearance there was an individual who was accessible. He had an imposing figure and a sonorous voice, probably that was the reason why Ashramites instead of approaching him would go to Khirod-da for help (both worked in the same department). But once you knew him you could ask him easily for any help.

These old sadhaks had one thing in common. They believed in every one of The Ashram as we were all children of the Mother. He enjoyed meeting people, liked to converse and it would be even better if it was over cup of tea. He loved to visit the workers’ Dispensary once in a while at about 9-9.30 am. It was the hour when I went to help the doctor with stock taking of medicine, bringing out from the store whatever medicine was needed for the day. The moment I entered the dispensary, I was informed that Umirchand-da was sitting with the doctor. “Bonjour, Umirchand-da”.

“Oh there you are Jharna; I am waiting for my cup of tea.”

While he waited for the tea and myself making it, there were always some talks about the school. The tea had to be served on a very special cup which was much bigger than the ordinary ones. He sat in the doctor’s room and enjoyed each sip. Once in a while we spoke about other things, but one main subject was the sweets of Rajasthan & those of Bengal. He often tried to make fun of the sweets made out of paneer. Sometimes I tried to defend the Bengal sweets, then one could see the amusement in his eyes. He would burst out laughing. It was pure amusement. Because he had, I felt the attitude, “Good will for all, malice for none.

By nature Parichand-da was quite different. He was quite as the say in Bengali “dhir, sthir”. He was one of the gardeners of The Ashram. The garden in the main Ashram building was his responsibility. A gardener par excellence, he too like his brother Umirchand-da offered himself completely at the service of The Mother.

He was a scholar, and had a deep knowledge of Philosophy, The works of The Mother and The Master. One never saw him preach. If one had some question, one had to go to his place. Outwardly he tended his garden, saw to the health of his plants and flowers.

Rarely he came to the workers’ Dispensary, but it was always nice meeting him. He sat with the doctor and conversed, mostly pertaining to different departmental issues. If I happened to be there, I would ask him if he would like a cup of tea. Sometimes he accepted, sometimes not.

He like Nolini-da enjoyed cultural programmes. He would be present in most of the programmes presented on the school stage. In 1980 I composed a dance-drama on the last day of Yajnavalka’s life in the Ashram where he utters those immortal words, I needed some specific white flowers, went to him and also requested him to see the dance-drama.

Next day of the programme when I went to the dispensary, there was waiting for me a note and a big bouquet of flowers. The dance-drama had touched him so much that, that was his way of appreciation.

“Yoga through work is the easiest and most effective way to enter into the stream of this Sadhana.”

    Sri Aurobindo

Suren Dutta - my uncle


Suren Dutta my uncle (father’s first cousin) was the eldest of his family. His father died when he had still not completed his school education. Though his maternal uncle took over the responsibility of the family he felt the necessity to earn and help in sustaining his siblings and mother. He left his village, went to Assam and in due course began a business. But by nature he was a man who wanted something other than this family life. He had by then began to look for someone who could help him in his quest. I believe he made contacts with the well-known spiritual figure of Baradiya Loknath Brahmachari and others. (About Loknath Brahmachari it is said that he had traveled up to France on foot. He had also gone to Mecca and it seems he called the “Kaba” Macceshwar, a shivalinga for him. It was just after the French revolution that he had visited France and according to him it was the dance of kali that took place.) Regarding Kaku we have heard that whenever he visited his mother he offered “Power” flower at his mother’s feet with a satsanga pranam.

By then something very unique happened in his village. Bimala-di (of weaving department) and Kedar Mesho - Namita’s father were already in touch with Sri Aurobindo Ashram. As far as I know Namita’s father and Yogananda-da were disciples of the same spiritual personality. Yogananda-da came to Pondicherry, was accepted as a Sadhak and that showed the way to others like Bimla-di, Namita’s family, my uncle and aunt. When Kaku came to know about the Ashram he decided to take the leap, for he felt that the Ashram could be his future home.

From the inception of the Ashram and even much later even to visit the Ashram one needed the permission of The Mother and The Master. Kaku was permitted to visit the Ashram and he arrived in Pondy sometime in August 1946. As it is said it was his “Agastya Yatra”. After he became an inmate of the Ashram the members of his family knew that he would not return. So what to do with his wife who had no children! She too was sent away for who shall look after her in later days! Her husband’s family didn’t know that it was really a boon in her life. What a wonderful life she led here!

Kaku was given work in the Bakery under Jatin-da who was in charge of Bakery and Laundry. Just for the newcomers it may be interesting to know how these departments functioned. The bakery had four or five inmates. Of them Kaku had the responsibility to mix the yeast in the evening, arrive at 2 am in the morning to mix the yeast and flour. A little later arrived Bhavani Prasad-ji and Madan-da to help him. When the dough was ready then came two or three others and all five or six put the dough in the moulds and with a handled spatula like tool put them in the oven. After this hard manual work Kaku wanted badly a cup of tea. Living in Assam he had become an addict of that drink. But being new he neither had the facility nor the permission to make a cup of tea in his room. So he would hurry to Padmasinidi’s department which boiled water to distribute it to the houses for morning bath. He took one glass full of this hot water and returned to his work.


Madan-da and Bhavani Prasad-ji kept an eye on the baking as the ovens were fixed with wood. Bhavaniprasad-ji was a silent worker. He kept to himself and went from one duty to the other while the general bread was baking they would prepare a special bread to be sent to The Mother. This was a work which all the three participated.

After the bread for Dining Hall was ready it was Madan-da who arranged the baskets with leaves and kept them ready to be taken to Dining Hall. He was also in charge of distributing to some Ashramites an extra loaf or two with The Mother’s permission. Then he kept aside a couple of loaves for the young students. At 11.30 after the bell they invaded the Bakery and Madan-da stood with his bread cut into pieces and distributed them among those hungry lot.

Bhavaniprasad-ji had to take that special bread to Pavitra-da’s room on the first floor. Every morning when full load of bread had been put in the oven Bhavani Prasad-ji collected bits & pieces of the dough fallen on the floor, collect all that remained on the body of the mixing container, went and sat on the footpath and making small balls of the dough threw them in the air. Dozens of crows surrounded him, their breakfast was getting served!

Kaku left Bakery at about 10-10.30 am and till evening it was his time. Most of the days in the afternoon after some rest he took up a Bengali book and read it; there were some which he read again and again.

After Jyotin-da’s demise the responsibility of the two departments were handed to two Ashramites: Kaku to look after the Laundry and Bhavaniprasad-ji The Bakery. For Kaku it was just shifting from one duty to another, for both were The Mother’s work.

Those who have come in sixties or there after have seen Kaku in the Laundry. Everyone could approach him with a request and he always obliged the individual. There came a time when it became necessary to regulate the number of clothes washed and pressed. For this he took Togo’s help and that’s how now we have to give for washing and pressing a fixed number of clothes.

As I have already mentioned he was a man most apt for any kind of manual work, which he did all through his life in the Ashram. His manual work reduced considerably after he shifted to the Laundry. One thing I felt most positively about him is that he believed implicitly that to do the Mother’s work is and should be the priority of one’s life. For him his work was his sadhana.

Surendra Uncle


There were three sadhaks, Surendra uncle, Kameshwarji and Tulsibhai who were authorized by The Mother, to have contact with the outside people; local as well as out of town. Kameshwarji was in charge of contacting the local police, solving problems arisen from law and order. He had also to visit the banks to draw money or to deposit papers and other documents relating to money matter. Then there was Tulsibhai who had the permission to go out of town for Ashram work and lastly Surendra uncle who was given the responsibility to clear from the customs office at Kandamangalam all goods that came from India. (As we all know till 1954 Pondicherry was a French colony.). This was an unpredictable duty for anytime of the day a telegram would come concerning the arrival of some goods and he had to go to clear it out. Apart from this he had also the responsibility to pay the house, electric, vehicle taxes. And in the morning and afternoon supervise milking of cows which were brought by the local milkmen. They came to the dairy and milked the cows under some sadhak’s supervision.

Surendra uncle came from a village in West Bengal where his father was a landed man. Having too many brothers and sisters, he being one of the youngest was left to himself most of the time. But from very young age he came under good influence of a village youth. This was Charu Chandra Sarkar our dear Charu da of the playground gate. He was a swadeshi by nature and spirit. He inspired many of the village youngsters with his zeal to serve The Motherland. Surendra uncle was one of them.

Charu-da came to know that Sri Aurobindo had founded an Ashram in Pondicherry, he decided to join the Ashram; for what can be more fortunate than to live under Sri Aurobindo’s protection. It seems one fine day without letting anyone know he left his village and came to Pondicherry. In due course he was accepted in the Ashram.

In the fifties he served in the Dining Hall banana in the morning, rice for lunch. In the afternoon he was present at the Playground gate from 4.30 pm when the activities began and left only after The Mother went back to The Ashram, which could be as late as 10 pm. It all depended on The Mother’s schedule for the evening.

Charu-da’s joining the Ashram was a turning point in Surendra uncle’s life. He too decided to join the Ashram. He arrived and in due course he was accepted as an inmate. Surendra uncle began to work under Amrita-da his duty being wipe and clean all the doors and windows of the Ashram building. He began with the  ground floor but in time was promoted to wipe also those of the first-floor barring of course those of The Mother’s and Sri Aurobindo’s room. For those there were other people.

Very many years he lived with us that is with my uncle Suren Datta, aunt Abha Datta and self. Thus many a time small pieces of older days way of life in the Ashram would be discussed. These old sadhaks had the habit of collecting things and not throwing away anything old. Once I happened to tell Surendra uncle “Why have you kept this bag, it is in tatters.”

He then gave me the reason for not throwing it away. When he used to wipe the windows and doors of the Ashram building he was given a single brush for the job. And it had to serve for the maximum period. In due course the brush began to lose its bristles and at the end not many remained on the wooden base. Repeatedly he informed Amrita-da about the condition of the brush but he advised him to make use of it as long as possible. One day he had enough of this advice, took the brush and showed it to Amrita-da. He in his turn informed The Mother, for without The Mother’s permission nothing was handed over to anyone, not even for department work. The Mother sanctioned a new brush, obviously Surendra uncle threw away the old one.

Next day The Mother asked Amrita-da whether Surendra uncle got his new brush. Amrita-da answered “yes”. Then The Mother inquired “where is the old one?”

Next time when Amrita-da met Surendra uncle asked him the same question. He had by then thrown it in the dustbin. Amrita-da ordered him to get it, “for The Mother wants to see it.”

Surendra uncle rushed to the Ashram  dustbin only to find that the garbage was still not collected for the day. He retrieved his old brush, washed, wiped and took it to Amrita-da who in his turn took it to The Mother. The Mother mentioned a certain wall cupboard and asked Amrita-da to put it there; an object which has given service not to be thrown away. We must be thankful for the service,” was Her comment.

Surendra uncle remembered that cupboard and said very many old objects were there for a long period. Surendra uncle was a very simple and an honest man. I came in contact with him from the day of my arrival. He had great respect for women. He believed in every individual; for he could never imagine that a Mother’s child can be other than honest. If someone tricked him he would not only get upset but also ask himself the question as to how anybody can behave in The Mother’s kingdom in the fashion.

There were a few French aged ladies who lived on their own. There were three sisters Mme Brink and Mme Felatrien, there was Mme Pierre. Of those ladies I may say something as The Mother was in touch with them through Surendra uncle. Mme Pierre used to send furniture, The Mother arranged with her to send in some houses furniture on rent. In the fifties and even later one could see in some houses those pieces of furniture. After Ashram had a full fledged furniture department under Rishabchand-da it was suggested to The Mother that Mme Pierre’s furniture may be returned. Surendra Uncle said that The Mother didn’t agree to it as “this amount which Mme Pierre received from the Ashram as rent was a great help.”

So was the case with Mme Brink and her sister. Their house was the building where we have now Parul’s & Kusamanjali’s boardings. On the western side of the building there were two garages. The Mother took these two garages on rent to help these old ladies. After the building was bought by the Ashram, the  garages were demolished and the present SABDA building came up. The “Bayoud House” which is now a hotel was one of the houses where The Mother had lived for sometime. That building too remained with the Ashram on rent till in the seventies it was sold off by the niece of Mme Brink who inherited the property. The Mother’s instruction to Surendra Uncle was that he should go personally to hand over the money of the rent and find out if they needed any help.

Surendra uncle was one of those early sadhaks who tried to live the life of the Ashram as it should be.

Sutapa


Behram’s aunt Sutapa was one of the “Ashtha sakhies” of The Mother; who played tennis with Her. She was a Parsi lady, petite and very smart. When I joined the school in 1953 she was a teacher of English for younger students. For a period she left school and worked in another department; but later joined the school as in charge of our Typing and Cyclostyle department.

Prior to 1953 how was the preparation for the celebration of 1st and 2nd December; how the school annual recess was spent by the young Ashram inmates (for in those days there was none who was only a student. If The Mother accepted someone, he or she became a member of The Ashram family.) But what I saw is this: The school academic year began on 9th of December (later it had shifted to 16th of December) and closed on 30th October. These five weeks were meant to prepare the grand celebration of the Anniversary of the school and also of the Department of Physical Education. Irrespective of age those who wished and were willing to work earnestly during these weeks participated whole heartedly.

These five weeks were also the period for the school to be ready for the new academic year. Thus the lists of the students promoted from one class to the next; the allotment of teachers, the Time-Table for the new session, there are a number of things to be done before the 16th of December. But most important being the students’ list and the Time Table. These lists were drawn by the section Teachers and then handed over to Arati-di for typing (At present they are done on the computer). Arati-di had and  has the responsibility to see that all these lists were properly handwritten and have everything like the name of the teachers, the number of periods, the room allotted for the classes are noted down. She used to go through them and then only pass them to the Typing section; for Sutapa’s work was faultless. She was a perfectionist. Any small object she found interesting transformed in her hand to a work of art. She never sent anyone a chit on a plain paper. There would always either be a small drawing, painting or a collage.

Thus one can very well imagine what she expected of the others.

In the department two young ladies helped her. Tulsa who is a French teacher and Manjari and there was Kailasbhai for the cyclostyle section. Manjari and Tulsa typed the lists but we have always seen three sets of lists. There were those that were put up for the students, one that was kept for the teachers and one that went to The Mother for Her perusal and signature. This particular set was done by Sutapa. She didn’t mind typing a list a few times provided the mistakes found were unavoidable, but a careless mistake was never pardoned. And woe to the teacher who left one, for he or she had to face her ire, and that was an experience. No teacher wished to face it a second time. Sutapa’s labour for The Mother was a labour of love and offering, and thus she could never send anything not quite perfect.

I came to know her a little more closely when she began to eat in “Corner House”. Krishnalal-ji, Sutapa and I sat on the same table for lunch at least. At the table Krishnalal-ji was the listener and we talked. She was very frank so gave her mind without any hesitation. Naturally a lot of people avoided her. Only a few knew of her softer side. I came to know about it in 1977 when I had a major operation. I was admitted to JIPMER and she tried to visit me as many times as possible in a week though she had allergy to petrol smell. Whenever she couldn’t she sent me a note with a lot of encouragement. Sometimes writing about what were the events of interest on that particular day. Those small notes were so touching that I preserved a few of them.

On the day of the operation she reached the hospital in the morning with a “Blessing packet”. I was then already sedated. She touched my forehead and softly said, “Don’t be afraid; The Mother will be with you all along”.

My incident shows how concerned she was regarding the health of those who had some relation with her. But regarding her own health she never let anyone know. If she was really unwell and didn’t come to school only then we realized that she needed some help. Therefore after a period of illness when one day she left us, we didn’t know how unwell she had been lately. After her demise it was found out that she had an extremely weak heart of which she never spoke to anyone, not even to her nephew or sister or her brother-in-law.

Tehmi-ben


One of the most respected professors of our Centre of Education was Tehmi-ben. She taught English literature to the senior most students and later took classes only on “Savitri”. I was her student for the last year of the school and the first year of Higher Course. It is then I came in contact with her. Some of my classmates wrote on the blackboard a couple of verses from “Savitri”. Tehmi-ben entered the classroom, looked at the board, read the verses and then asked us whether we knew the context and the meaning. Most of the time it was a negative answer except now and then we were capable of giving her the book & the canto. She often not only gave the reference, but also recited a few more verses from Savitri. Sometimes she recited also from some great English poets.

As a student I held her in awe as she was so different from the others! She lived in Golconde and always was in white. She walked on the street with her head down. You hardly saw her stopping on the way and talking to someone. For me, first few months were difficult as I could not work as she expected us to. From my side I was weak in the subject and then I was neither a bright nor a diligent student. I just worked and that was that. Though later I took interest in History and Philosophy but the languages remained my weak point. (The irony of the life is that I was asked to teach French and then Bengali, I still do!)

With the end of the first year of Higher Course my contact ended with her. It was in the seventies of last century that we began to meet. Sutapa also lived in Golconde; These two Parsi ladies were more like sisters. As I have already mentioned, Sutapa used to eat in “Corner House”, sat with Krishnalalji and myself. On my birthday I began to send them some snacks and cake; because I knew they had their tea together in the afternoon. They sent me small greeting cards prepared by themselves. Even then I cannot say I knew Tehmi-ben. It is only after she began to sit with us during the recess in the school for soup that I became quite free with her.

One morning after soup she was having little difficulty to get up. I naturally wanted to know whether she had hurt herself somehow. The answer was that she was having some difficulty at night as her mattress had become very thin due to age. I blurted out “Themi-ben, why don’t you change it then?” She then gave me the reason for sleeping on an old mattress.

In those early days of Golconde The Mother used to visit it quite regularly in the afternoon. On a particular day Tehmi-ben was suffering from fever, so she was resting in bed and feeling sorry for not being there to receive The Mother. Suddenly she felt a hand on her forehead, opening her eyes she found The Mother seated on her bed and all she could do was to slide down and kept at The Mother’s feet. “When she sat on my bed how can I reject that mattress” she asks.

I then suggested that she gets a new one and put it under the old. Even that was not possible in Golconde as there were specific rules and regulations, and she did not want to break them for her comfort.

She held classes reading and explaining Savitri but once she advised me, “If you want “Savitri” as your spiritual guide; you should study it by your self.”

It was while taking soup together once I said “Tehmi-ben it must be the good deeds of seven lives that we have come under Her protection.”

She answered “No child, it is Her Grace that has brought us here.”

On another occasion I lamented “As long as you people are there, we can always approach you for help. What will happen later?”

“Depend, always depend on Her” was her answer. That was Tehmi-ben.

The Old Playground

How did we spend the time between group activities and March Past

    

     These days when we enter the Playground we find ourselves in a big field with concrete buildings all around. Before remodelling and reconstruction, Playground was not so. There was an imposing neem tree in the Dortoir courtyard  and a patch of green grass at the very entrance. Just after the cement bench on the left of the Entrance was the green lawn ; it was on a slope  about ten metres long and no one was allowed to walk on it.

     When the Playground was remollded the whole picture changed. Except The Mother 's room , the Projector room , the passage room, everything was demolished and constructed anew.

          Just to give a rough idea of The old Playground, though in the photos of earlier days it is very  clear, yet for the new comers it may give a rough idea.

     The entrance door is the same, though there has been some changes in its shape, after which on the left began the ground and to the right a long hall with quite a broad verandah.

     On the verandah were suspended rings and rope for doing exercises. At the end, on the west  most side of the verandah, were the "wall bars" again for exercises. The hall was used for keeping gymnastic apparatus such as box, pomelled horse, uneven bars and mattrasses for agility. The groups having gymnastics had to take out all these apparatus and mattrasses in the open and arrange them for doing items.

     On the west of this hall was a small room used for different purposes. Primarily it was the tiffin room. Afternoon tiffin was distributed from here and Vishwajit-da was in charge." Dhoke be as le ao"as his famous coinage. It could have been anything from a spoon to a dish to a piece of bread. The moment he heard something falling he would shout "Dhokar le as . "

     This room was also used by the elderly sadhaks of H group to keep their clothes and bags. For, many of them would come wearing a dhoti over their group shorts.

     Outside to the west of this small room there were two taps to wash tiffin vessels and also to water the Playground. Above the taps was a frame for fixing the screen for film projection. So to see a film we sat facing the north.

     Then began the "Dortoir" building . It was an one storey building with an adjacent small courtyard in which there was an old neem tree which spread its branches over a part of The Playground.  While remodelling The Playground this tree was dug out with lots of care and transplanted in the Dining Room garden. But unfortunately it didn't surrvive. After "Dortoir" building as of today the "Guest House".

     On the southern side again the building was from east to west. At the very beginning  there were two rooms used as the "Laboratory",  till the present Lab was constructed. In one of these rooms The Mother used to give interview and also hold classes for a group of ladies. The classes  before I joined the school. After these rooms there was a big hall which we used to call "The Mother's class Room ", as She used to hold classes for elder sadhhhhaks and sadhikas; the students being : Amrita-da, Nolini da, Pavitra-da, Rishabchand-da, Priti-di, Millie-di, Minu-di, Tehmi-ben,Nolini Sen da, Ila-di, Indukha-di, Sutapa and others. There were around 30/35 people who attented the classes.

     It is here that The Mother translated some of Sri Aurobindo works in French. This particular hall was also used by the students after group activities, before March Past and during Marching. Who so ever had some homework to complete would sit in the hall and finish as much as possible; as there would always be a few teachers sitting along and doing their own work; thus there was always someone to help the students. In this hall The Mother used to see the film before it was shown to the ashramites. For, at that time we had only one 16 mm projector which Vishwanath-da would arrange in the hall. But we saw the film in The Playground facing north as I have already mentioned.

     After this hall came The Mother's rest room and Her  washroom which are  left as they were, then the passage room. Entering the south most part of The Playground the toilets and wash basins are in the same place but there was also  a concrete half wall along with a row of Casurina trees dividing the passage and the courtyard. On this ground rings were suspended from a height, which were used by the  body builders. In fact this was the body building section of our Playground. On right side there was a room in which dumbbells and weights were arranged. They were taken out in the open and exercises done. Just east of this room was the drinking water tank with taps . Here the open space was not very big but a few wall mirrors were hung for the use of the body builders' use.

    At  east most there were two rooms, between these two rooms there was a space in which the malcumb was planted.

     Above the drinking water area  there was a small hall for asanas taught by Ambu-bhai . A metal staircase led to that hall. I believe there is a photograph of that particular staircase where The Mother is releasing a bunch of balloons .

     There were two rooms to the east having the windows on the road. In one of them lived Gauri-di who was in charge of The Mother's Room in The Playground. Later a room was  constructed on the first flour to the west of the projector room for her (while waiting for The Mother coming from Tennis ground,she would sit, opening the small door, from where they now bring out "The Chair" for meditation, and do embroidery on The Mother's dresses. We would often stand by the door and watch for a while her work).

     Narendra Jauhar , the second brother of Chitra-di. (Faith farm) used to live in the other room . But he passed away at a very early age. After him Ajit Sarkar came to live in that room till he left for France.

     This in general how" The Playground " was, but I began by saying how we spent the time between the group activities and March Past.

     As of now there were Play ground, Tennis ground, Volley ball ground and the Sports ground without the eastern annex.

     Those who had activities in the Sports ground had to walk down to the ground. Generally the Green and Red group members walked  in  formation of two, as we see the children of Green group going to Tennis ground now a days. In the earlier days there were only two division of Green group- A1 the younger children and A2 the older one. Members of A1 would have all their activities in the Playground except for Sea Swimming. They would go to the Tennis ground. Sea Swimming was one of the regular programmes for most of the Groups till the Swimming Pool was constructed in 1958. From 5.30 P.M. different groups would have their gymnastics at the Playground, at the end of the items Pranab-da gave order for Marching which rounded up the day's  gymnastics.

     If The Mother didn't consent to give interview then  the March Past began by 7.15-7.20 P. M. After March Past durind marching The Mother rested for a while and then came out for concentration . After concentration She stood at the door of Her Room and distributed either ground nuts or a toffee to The Dining Room workers, Bakery workers and some others. Then She would walk down to the "Guest House" to distribute the same to the members of Green Group.

    The days there was a class, she remained there, conducted the class. If I recollect correctly the classes were held on Sunday, Tuesday  and Friday. Sunday was the day for recitation of a few verses from a poem or a sentence written by The Mother. This selection she handed over to Tara who had a special note-book in which she copied and left the note-book at a particular place in PED library; the children of Group A would go anytime of the week to the library, copy down and begin to memorise." La Mere Travaille Avec les Enfants" is the collection of all there recitations, dictations and stories " The Mother did with the children of Group A.

     Then on Tuesday there would be dictation and Friday story telling. For dictation she would dictate one sentence and after correcting it give marks. I joined the class after it had begun  on. The Playground around the map. Then she read different legends from different countries. I believe the full set is still there in our school library.

  After distribution and class with group A She would come out and continue Her distribution with first B group and then C, D, E, F, G, H , then the Ashramites who were not in group and lastly the visitors. She walked around The Playground once certainlty but sometimes she even took two rounds during Darshan Period. On Wednesday there was the class with B group members which She used to hold in Her Room. But in  time it became too crowded . Moreover many inmates of The Ashram wished to attend to these classes thus The B group class also was conducted in the open.

     Class days She avoided giving any interview. But the day there was one, one was not sure as to when the March Past would take place . It was in those days that one could see very interesting  circles around  the Play ground. I have already spoken about "news reading". Arup Tagore who in those days played on his mouth organ would sit with some of his friends and play Bengali and Hindi songs on request . Then there would be a group around Kabi da (Nishikanto) This group consisted of those who could sing Rabindra Sangeet. Kabi-da was naturally centre of this circle and on his request some one or the other of the group sung some Rabindra Sangeet with that now and then he spoke of his early days at "Shantiniketan". Once it so happened , on that particular evening there was a strong breeze and Kabi-da was sitting with us under the neem tree, there was a gust of wind and a few leaves fell on us. Kabi-da picked up one and said, " Do you want to hear how Robi Thakur gave a good lesson to my elder brother?" (Sudhakanto, Kobi-da's elder brother did a lot of secretarial work for the poet) Dada was out of station for a while and when returned went to meet the poet next morning very early . Entering the room Dada found the poet sipping some green juice as if with a lot of relish. Dada was quite intrigued. What was it that Gurudev was enjoying ? Rabindranath must have suspected something and with a smile asked "Sudha, will you like to taste it a little?" Dada was overjoyed and replied "If Gurudev ....!" Then Rabindranath called his personal servant "Banamlti" and ordered him to give Sudhakanta a full glass of what he was drinking. After a while a big glass of green juice was offered to Sudhakanta; who with all eagerness took his first sip only to make a face. Robindranath was observing Sudhakanta all along and seeing the expression he chided, "So Sudha, you people have the false notion that Gurudev always tastes the tastiest of things!" It was a tumbler full of neem leaf juice.

     Sensing that The Mother was ready for March Past, Pranab-da would give the order for ressemblement and every one would hurry to stand in formation in their respective  groups. The March Past , marching , concentration , distribution, classes if it were a day of class or meditation. The Mother returning to the Ashram , the time could be any where between 9 and 10  PM.

The Three Sisters


Priti – di

It is difficult to speak about the people around you whom you meet and speak to them nearly everyday, yet we know very little of them.

Priti-di, Tapati-di and Arati-di if I may take the liberty to say, that they have always treated me as a younger sister. I visited and still visit them once in a while and yet there has always been an affectionate bond between us especially with Priti-di and Arati-di.

Priti-di was one of the Astha Sakhis of The Mother. The Mother’s grace and protection must have enveloped every moment of her life. Being one of the astha sakhis of The Mother indicates that she took very special interest in Priti-di and the other seven. She, I believe arrived in Pondicherry after her graduation and stayed back for good. She was young and alone. From the very beginning she lived in Nanteuil House and spent all her life there.

As we all know there are two halls in Nanteuil which have two table tennis tables. The Mother used to play Table Tennis with the young boys and girls (once while talking Maya-di said that they used to play with The Mother and now and then fight amongst themselves in front of The Mother). On the western side of the Table Tennis Halls there are three rooms, in one of them lived Priti-di. While playing whenever The Mother needed some help like rearranging Her dress before or after the play, The Mother would call for Priti-di for help, enter into Priti-di’s room and with her help She got the thing done.

Priti-di was very motherly. She taught French in our school and in her class if a girl student came with a button hanging or hair not properly tied, she would ask the student to come to her side and make her aware that in The Mother’s school one is not to come untidy. (a button should be stitched back when the thread gives away or the hair should be matted or clipped properly so that one is not disturbed while studying.) She hardly ever had a harsh word for her students, even the most lazy and undisciplined went to her class and at the end of the year came out quite changed; maybe it was due to her persuasive method.

She taught French in our school and certainly was one of the best. Though she never taught Bengali, her mother tongue, her knowledge of the language was profound. Once she had asked me to write down the recipe of a certain sweet, I naturally wrote in Bengali, after reading she pointed out to me “Look, we don’t say this the way you have written, you should have written well, you should have used these words.”

Once she narrated how she joined The Mother’s class in the Ashram. This is her version: She and Chitra-di used to sit in the Meditation Hall and read The Mother’s “Prieres et Meditations”. On one of Tapati-di’s birthdays when Tapati-di went on the first floor of the Ashram building for The Mother’s blessings, The Mother after pranam told Tapati-di to get in and wait. (As far as I recollect in that period one could go to The Mother quite a few times for pranams. It began early in the morning, then if there was blessings downstairs otherwise and went up to the first floor; then in the playground and again at night after She returned from the playground. These pranams stopped after she discontinued to go the playground. Then we went to Her in the afternoon in Her salon. Lastly after she stopped coming down to the first floor we had to write to Her praying for permission to go to Her and do pranam. After Tapati-di, Priti-di went for Pranam, likewise she asked Priti-di also to go in and wait for The Mother; That was Her order. While narrating this Priti-di in her inimitable way said, “I was so scared! Without any sign of anger or disapproval She just asked me to go in. I went trembling inside; what wrong have I committed!”

Thus the three ladies joined The Mother’s class. The Mother read “Priers et Meditations”, Pranab-da sat in front and behind him sat these three ladies.

I believe, it will not be out of place I also note down here what Violette-ji had to say about her joining this particular class. (Violette-ji or Bhabhi-ji as she was called by many in the Ashram was Aster Patel’s mother and Sumedha’s aunt (mami)).

According to Violette-ji The Mother began Her class with Pranab-da; then came Tapati-di, Priti-di and Chitra-di. This particular class The Mother conducted on the first floor of The Ashram main building. One morning as Violette-ji went to The Mother to offer her pranam The Mother asked her whether she would like to join The Mother’s class? Violette-ji was overwhelmed, she replied that it will be a great privilege. Hearing which The Mother asked her to come at a certain hour in the morning for the class. According to Violette-ji later The Mother asked Mme. Subrata, Bilkees and Vasudha-ben to join the others.

(There is an Entretiens of the year 1929; that too is a collection of Her talks to some sadhaks of that era. It is also mentioned as a class, and I believe Kanai-da, Rishabchand-da and others attended that class.)

As I had already mentioned earlier Ashramites were not encouraged to go out and eat in restaurants. Thus the young men who were friendly with Mona-da and lived alone once in a while were invited by Priti-di to dinner; naturally it was always a feast to cherish.

“I always pray to the Lord that partition may be no more and especially of Bengal.” How many times she has repeated this to me and always concluded saying “you too pray for it. It must go, it has to go.”

The unshakable faith in the words of The Mother and Sri Aurobindo of one sadhika can be a great source of inner strength for someone who is also the wayfarer of the same path.

Tapati-di was one of the sprinters of the white group. Paru-di was the other one. In the fifties of the last century whoever was a member of the groups of Physical Education participated in sports and games. Leaving green group members to have their own groupings, all the rest were grouped according to their capacity. As I mentioned earlier I had run 100 mtrs. with Nolini-da. Regarding sprints in white groups Tapati-di and Paru-di were best. The day they had their 100 mtrs. sprint, there was a lot of excitement, those who were present in that early era of sports still remember Tapati-di and Paru-di with the others in white shorts, sleeveless white banian and kitty cap standing at the starting point for Pranab-da to give the signal. And we could hear from all corners of the gallery some encouraging Paru-di and some Tapati-di. One never knew who would come first.

Tapati-di worked in the Ashram Press, I believe from the very inception of the department. And she has worked there all her life. She was considered the fastest typist of the Ashram, she was entrusted with the typing of the manuscript in most of the foreign languages. In order to be as perfect as possible in her work she learnt French, German and Italian. For the sadhaks of the earlier period of the Ashram all their work was an offering to The Mother, and the offering had to be as perfect as one’s capacity.

Tapati-di was someone who hardly missed her work in the Press. Even when she became unwell, a fever for instance, and if she had some very important papers to type, she wouldn’t listen to Priti-di or Arati-di, she would reach the Press on time, and complete the work. Work, that is, The Mother’s work was the priority of her life.
In the evening at about 8 pm she went to the Ashram and sat with Lata Jauhar near Bula-da’s room. It continued for years but in the course of time Lata had to change the timing but Tapati-di continued her schedule. For the last few years of her life she sat on a stool near the room from where they distribute incense sticks for the Samadhi. I too had the habit of going to the Ashram at that hour and we sat side by side; she meditating and I just sitting and bathing myself in the tranquility and peace of the Ashram atmosphere.

As she was aware of Priti-di’s affection for the younger girls of the Ashram including self; after Priti-di’s demise Tapati-di took her sister’s place at least in my case.

Nata-da our Italian professor called her “Seciattolo” squirrel; which was certainly an apt name for Tapati-di. She was as active as a squirrel.

Tapati-di lived a life of a sadhika and till the last day of her life she was one. Even when she suffered excruciating pain due to illness she bore it with fortitude.

The youngest of the three sisters is Arati-di, the chief administrator of our school. She has been working in the school library and helping Sisir-da from the very beginning. Leaving aside her teaching schedule which in earlier days were 3 to 4 periods a day, she was made in-charge of the school library. Though slowly she had others to help her, her work and responsibility didn’t diminish; they increased with the years.

The heavy work that she has to face comes at the end of the academic session (31 October). The students in our institution are supplied not only with the text books but also with stationary. At the end of the session the books are back in the school library. These are then counted, covered anew, those that are torn repaired and kept ready for the new session which begins on 16th December. She has also to see that enough notebooks are there at the beginning of the year. She prefers to have everything ready in advance.

This itself is a heavy task for a month and a half, but there is also the annual check up of the books in the school library. There are how many? Thousand! No, a few thousand books arranged under a library card system. They are all brought out checked with respective card, cleaned and put back in their respective place. She has a very old register of 7 / 8 hundred pages, in which she has written down the names of all the text books with the number of copies. They also are counted and put down in the register; and this is no mean work.

Before the session begins those books which are to be issued are noted down in well categorised sheets according to section and standard and then are arranged to be distributed. These issued sheets are again separated and kept in different folders for the future references and issuing of more books as and when need arises.

She tries to be in the know-how of all that happens in the school. Any accident to a student or a teacher, any illness – she makes a point to be updated regarding the condition of the individual.

With all these responsibilities she also arranges to prepare blessing packets on weekly basis.

And then she has been a captain of women’s group for decades, she has remained so because the younger captains want it to be thus so that they can always get her for advice and suggestion whenever needed.

With me her relation has been, as I have already mentioned of younger sister and an elder one. These three sisters had affection for the younger girls of their generation, and I feel fortunate that I too have  had a share in it.








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