Tara Jauhar's recollections of her close proximity, guidance and love from The Mother through personal contact & through letters & correspondence.
The Mother : Contact
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Sri Aurobindo was actually trying to compose a poem in a quantitative metre when ‘Rose of God’ burst forth, each of its lines containing six stresses. Like the Vedic mantra, this became a prayer for the blossoming of the Divine Rose on earth, its five petals blazoning Bliss, Light, Power, Life and Love.
This was on thirty-first December, 1934. From the first of January 1935 the prayer must have begun to act. Even as the forces of Evil set up the Second World War, the roses of God bloomed defying Darkness and soon some of them had been drawn to Pondicherry for Divine nurturing by the Mother. Tara happens to be one of them.
The earliest recollection I have of Tara is when I met her sometime in 1962. I had gone to Pondicherry with father and Tara demonstrated a recent arrival, a typewriter from Germany. As father loved to handle typewriters, he had many questions to ask and Tara answered them all in clear tones. Later on father told me whether I noticed she did not waste a single word. Yes, Tara has always been following the Mother’s dictum:
“Don’t speak; act.
Don’t announce; realise.”
To have been in day-to-day contact with the Mother as a willing clay to be moulded into a flaming warrior of the Omnipotent could not have been easy for a girl-child. How did Tara manage? What was the methodology of the Mother in educating a child?
Reading this book gave me quite a few existential shocks. For forty years I have known Chachaji’s family and during all these decades I have been quoting the Mother’s answers to questions on flowers, on the ideal of woman’s beauty, on women and physical exercises, on education and on yoga. But I never knew Tara was the questioner! Sri Aurobindo himself would have enjoyed the humour of this situation!
In a sense, then, a good deal of this book will be familiar to the readers also. And yet, we will be coming to it again and again because the golden thread of connection with Tara makes the message a special guide for teachers online. Take the word that is the very basis of this divine living: sadhana. How does the Mother manage when a twenty-three year old young lady asks seriously: “Sweet Mother, What exactly are the subconscient and the inconscient?” But there is no hemming and hawing. The answer comes clear, direct and with full faith in the listener’s sincerity.
“The inconscient is that part of Nature which is so obscure and asleep that it seems to be wholly devoid of consciousness; at any rate, as in the stone, the mineral kingdom, the consciousness there is entirely inactive and hidden. The history of the earth begins with this inconscience
“We too carry it in ourselves, in the substance of our body, since the substance of our body is the same as that of the earth.
“But by evolution, this sleeping and hidden consciousness gradually awakens through the vegetal and animal kingdoms, and in them subconscience begins; this subconscience, with the appearance of mind in man, culminates in consciousness. This consciousness likewise is progressive, and as man evolves, it will change into superconscience.
“We too, then, carry in ourselves the subconscience which links us to the animal, and the superconscience which is our hope and assurance of future realisation.”
The Mother was a rare teacher; a teacher who wanted questions to be asked! She would be upset if students remained dumb as if the lesson had just flown away with the wind. Tara asks a variety of questions: how to teach, how to manage exceptional children, the nagging worries a woman has about her body, the strength needed to come to terms with the physical loss of a dear one. The answers are dipped in the molten gold of Truth and hence one finds a rapier-sharpness in the replies conveying a message never to be forgotten. Here is a request whether some relations could come over to Pondicherry as the conflict with Pakistan makes Delhi somewhat unsafe. The Mother’s reply: “They can come to Pondicherry—but those who are afraid, are afraid everywhere. And one who has faith is safe wherever he may be.”
There are then the birthday messages to Tara and the Mother’s reactions to exclamations of ecstasy as well as forlorn cries of a soul in pain. A letter from the Mother dated July 1972 when Tara is away in Europe:
“I am always with you and will be with you throughout your journey to help you to find the Divine—the only way to have lasting happiness.
“I expect to see you again on your next birthday; pray for this grace which is the true aim of your life.
“I ask only that you have faith and trust. I am curling myself up in your heart so that you will always find me there.
“With love and blessings.”
The Mother is also the Universal Mother. Hence the messages addressed to Tara become messages for all of us, even if they are interactions at a very close personal level (the Mother on how She divides the photographs given by Tara, on the continuation of a medical treatment); a casual sketch of Tarini by the Mother is revealed as a silent message on how to meditate; and the information about Tara’s indexing 10,000 photographs of the Mother moves us to meditate on the Maha Meru Yantra. For who can exhaust the facets of the Divine Mother?
That is why Tara reveals only lightning flashes of those days in Pondicherry when it was as if gods walked on earth while the Supreme kept busy fashioning the Next Future. And how was it done? By explaining ‘A God’s Labour’, by sketching two birds from two drops of ink that had fallen on a paper, by jotting down meditations (“Do not live to be happy, live to serve the Divine, and the happiness you enjoy will exceed all expectation”) in the notebook which Tara carried around, by playing “The Magic Circle” or “Precious Stones” with the Ashram children. Growing Up with The Mother thus turns out to be the Book of Beginnings for aspirants in the world of Aurobindonian Yoga. We realise that it is also an Ananda yoga thanks to the visual presence of sweet Mother as the flames grow up in the Ashram and become lifetime achievers. The photographs in this volume are not mere results of man’s technological advance; they are an armour against all fear, helplessness, depression. They make us hear the anahata nada the Mother recorded in Her Prayers and Meditations: “And in my heart is the song of gladness of Thy sublime magnificence.”
Sri Aurobindo has spoken of the Gita’s ideal of Yoga as “skill in works”. We find this yoga in the patient manner in which plans were laid to bring out a Book of Flowers and how the compassionate Mother agreed to record the significance on condition that She could “actually see the real flowers before writing the caption under the significance”. There was so much enthusiastic activity that the Ashram gardeners began to grow rare flowers and even produced new flowers!
The Rose of God, then, is no impossible dream. We shall certainly march behind our always-young Captain Tara Jauhar!
Prema Nandakumar
24.11.1999
Tara with the Mother on her birthday, 5.7.1970
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